Hi there, New to this forum.
My mum was recently diagnosed with bowel cancer and after having emergency surgery to try and remove said nasty, it appears it has grown very quickly and stuck so it cannot be removed. It has also spread to her liver but thankfully not to her lungs.
She now has a stoma after they performed a Ileostomy but we saw the oncologist on Thursday who have said it's advanced and not curable but they wil be doing chemo to try and help. Obviously I'm quite distraught about it all (having losty dad to Pseudomyxoma peritonei 9 years ago) and just wondered if anyone can share their experiences.
I am struggling to talk to my husband about it as I just upset all of the time but thought this might help.
Thanks
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Hi Spurs01 and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
I’m Anne, one of the Community Champions here on the Online Community and, although I'm not a member of this group, I noticed that your post hadn't had any replies yet. Responding to you will 'bump' it back to the top of the discussion list again.
It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time right now so I hope someone from the group can come forward and share their experiences with you.
You might also find the supporting someone with incurable cancer group a supportive place to be. If you'd like to join the group, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
Sending virtual ((hugs))
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