Op to remove all my rectum

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Hi, firstly I thank everybody who has supported me through this period of not knowing what to expect, after being seen by the Manchester consultant, who told me before the sigmoidoscopy that he wouldn't be able to to the op locally in a TEMS procedure,  I'm now back to my local hospital and the consultant I first saw, Chris Smart. I have to say he's gone out of his way to let me know what's going on, and the colorectal nurses at my local hospital are superb. I now know I need to have a big op, as of yet I don't know what it's called, I see thw consultant next week, when I also have mu pre op. I know its in through the stomach to remove all of my rectum, my tumor is low down, only 4cms into my bottom. Which apparently is not so good as they're not sure if there will be enough left to be able to attach the ends, if that makes sense, and reverse the stoma, theres also a node that's got to be taken too, I trust him that he will do his best, and there's a 40% chance of it being permanent. I've had a hysterectomy that I flew through. SarahH21 says it's probably not like the hysterectomy recovery. Thank you Sarah, I'm sure many of you have had some sort of procedure that's similar, my tumor is T2a N1. I'd like to know other people's recovery, any problems that you've had, as I say, I'm a newbie and I don't know the name of the op, but I'm just glad that I now have a treatment plan, the waiting was horrible. If anyone can give me any help with recovery, ways to help with pain or your experiences. I'm also dealing with a back spasm now, my kitten decided to trip me up, but a couple of days rest will sort that.I am already on fentanyl patches, 100mcg/hour, with tramadol for breakthrough, and amitriptylene at night, with diazepam to help muscles relax and help me sleep. I can't take gabapentin or pregabalin, they send me weird, I thought I'd been asleep one afternoon, and apparently I had been out in the rain, in slippers and nightshirt digging the garden and trying to get in the car to post a letter, I was glad that Steve was there to stop me. Who knows what I'd have done if I'd been alone!!! Anyway, I'm waffling, I do that a lot!! If anyone can help with their experience of the op both straight after the op and then recovery at home, and any hints to make it easier I'd be very grateful. Everyone has been so nice on here, amd propped me up when I was slipping. My island is now no longer getting smaller and I'm now floating instead of sinking  Thank you, sorry for waffling.  Rosie

  • Oh this is very good news Rosie! I’m so pleased for you coming to the surface and floating! That’s very honest of your surgeon to put you forward to another expert in the field, and getting the best outcome is what you want to strive for. Sounds like a very good plan, and not long to wait to get this cancer out. 

    If you don’t need any kind of stoma, that’s one less thing to think about, but if you do then you know there’ll be lots of support for you here.

    Sarah xx


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  • My consultant is a nice man, very nice, full of confidence and he said 'I don't need my ego messaging ' and am glad he spoke with the woman from Wythenshawe, as last week Mr Donnelly at Manchester said I'd be referred to the robotics team,but that it would be 6 to 8 weeks, so Chris Smart knowing her and ringing her when she's on holiday  her taking the call, all this has helped to get me there a little sooner. I'm hugely grateful and if I plan for a stoma then I will be surprised if I don't need it. I finally feel I'm getting somewhere, and I'm doing OK, qnd a lot of that is due to the support from so many people on this group helping to prop me up, without it I'd be drowning in shark infested water with no island in sight!! My kitten, she's 18 months will always be the kitten, she's stalking a fly, she's usually good at catching flies, but this ones crafty, she's so cute, she has been swearing at it, but her swearing I'd like Sweep, just a tiny squeak, made me smile, and I've not been doing much smiling lately, hoping it's an omen of what's to come and uts all going to be good. Rosie xx

  • Hi Wil66, wow, you're doing well, bet you're glad to get home, I wish you all the best for your recovery, it's a big op, I have that to look forward to, but so many people on here have been so helpful, it's been getting easier to deal with, I'm a way off yet, but I'll get there eventually, I know the nurses are the oil that keeps the engine turning, I've had many surgeries in the past 26 years, and have found that, we have a great health care system, when it works well it can't be beaten. All the best for your recovery,  please keep us updated. Rosie xx

  • Sometimes it’s who you know that can make all the difference! My surgeon wanted specific surgeons for my op as 3 were required and she did apologise for making me wait but told me they were the best in their fields-she was gynae and I also needed colorectal and urology - and she worked well with them. I was happy to go with her recommendation, though I didn’t like waiting due to the pain I was in. The result was worth it though! 

    Seems like you’ll be in good hands.

    Sarah xx


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