Yesterday I discovered my diagnosis is terminal, e.g. already spread to liver and lung. I'm going to have a stoma I think, to ease bowel symptoms. 12 to 24 months if my response to chemo is "average".
I ended up writing a long list of "things to do". Actual practical things, not a bucket list, e.g. sort out will etc. It's kind of funny but I will need to mostly do things for other people, as they need reassurance and their anxieties calmed, whereas I really don't.
Anybody else in this boat? I expect 500 people were given such a diagnosis yesterday, so I'm not alone!
