I have finally a date for my surgery 20/10/2025. I am so scared and confused that I cannot even think properly, I will have my pre op assessment this coming Friday and I cannot think on tings to ask about it. Should I mention the prostate cancer too the colon consultant? I am a mess.... I don't know what to say what to think.... I am starting panicking I think. Maybe I must double my daily dose of Diasepam and forget about anything
Hi Kirby724dd4f1 Good to hear that you’ve got a date for surgery and the tumour will soon be in the bin. Now take a deep breath and breathe. I’ve attached a link to a booklet about the operation and there’s also a list of questions that you might want to ask and a good list of things to take with you.
https://bcuk.adidocdn.dev/Publications/Y1047%20BCUK%20Your%20operation_Web.pdf
Will someone be going to the pre-op with you? It’s often helpful to have a second pair of ears there and a pen and paper with your questions on. The surgeons do these sort of operations for a living so are very experienced and I’m sure they’ll be able to reassure you.
Take care
Karen x
Hi Karen,
Thank you so much for your message it is really useful, my wife she will go with me and be asking all the questions, I am terribly for this kind of meetings the nervous taking over and I endup not asking anything important. Thank you so much.
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