Hi everyone. What lovely supportive and helpful people you all are. My husband was recently diagnosed with G3 superficial bladder cancer following a TURBT when 3 tumours were removed. It was several weeks before he was informed and a second TURBT was arranged to see whether the cancer is muscle invasive. Altogether 3 months from the first to the second TURBT which took place yesterday. We now have a further wait of two to three weeks for the histology report. While he is very patient and not curious, I really feel the need to know what to expect and what might happen,
From what I've read on this forum, there is so much invaluable personal experience, and you all seem so willing to help and support. I hope it will be OK for me to contribute and seek support from you all as things progress. BCG treatment has been mentioned, but the results of the current TURBT seem to be a critical factor. Hubby is still in hospital since yesterday and has been told very little except that lots of "scraping" around the resected tumour sites was done - as well as a bisopsy of his prostate. I'm feeling very anxious, but don't want to pass my anxiety on to him as he's quite calm and relaxed about it all, and says he will worry if he knows there's something to worry about! He's in his late 70s and has never been ill before.
Hoping to go and pick him up soon, but waiting for say so from the medical team.
Thank you for listening. Nettm
Thank you Mark. I feel so much better - in such a short time - with the lovely replies I've received. It's reassuring to hear from people with such wide-ranging experiences of bladder cancer. Unfortunately, hubby's is Grade 3 and "aggressive", but I'm hoping for the best. Good to hear from people who are living normal lives after their cancer treatments.
Warmest wishes, Nettm
I was back to normal much sooner - under 12 months, although kept pushing myself. Today is more or less 3 years.
Hair and stuff takes a bit longer to get back to normal, weight probably the same. Mental confidence also though we all vary of course.
All the best,
Latestart
Hi Nettm, welcome to the group,
do you know if you have a “Maggies” near you? They offer support for everyone who C has affected. The one I use is brilliant…
it’s a free service, im currently doing a course to deal with stress and Anxiety…very helpful.
also I drink the lemon barley water…believe it or not but the more he drinks the easier it will be….
Nigel x
I was TaG3 too. If that is confirmed, NICE guidelines are to offer a choice of BCG therapy or bladder removal, although some consultants consider surgery over treatment for Ta and only offer BCG. It is a gamble, because BC is likely to recur and progress. Difficult weighing up your personal circumstances, pros and cons of each option. At age 56, I chose surgery, partly for best prospect of cure, but I wonder if I were considerably older, if I would have tried BCG. Hopefully they will give you time and plenty of information to enable you to consider. Either way, the outlook is good. Best wishes.
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