Bladder Cancer

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Hi there, I left an introductory message a few days ago and thank you for all the kind replies.  Sadly my husbands health has deteriorated since my post.  We were hoping to get him home for palliative care but he has now got sepsis again and his kidneys are slowly giving up.  I am in such a state with it.  My husband is sleeping a lot but does wake up and is fairly lucid.  That's all I wanted to say.

  • Hello Ellen64, I am so sorry to hear this. my heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you strength at this difficult time and hope that you have lots of support in place . sending you my love and care .

    Much love Angela x

  • I’m so very sorry to hear this Ellen.Thinking of you and  your husband.Love Jane xx

  • Thank you so much.  

  • Thank you so much.  We thought we would have the spring and summer and maybe more, so very distressing.

  • If you need to chat Ellen we will always be here , there is always someone here to listen . sending you love x

    Much love Angela x

  • I'm so sorry you may not have the time together that you were hoping for. You are both in my thoughts.

    We faced something like this when my mother had bladder cancer in the 70s. Our only consolation (my father, sister and I) was that she did not suffer and was lucid to the end. My sister and I  miss her still.

    In those days there was not much they could do. I have been very  fortunate that when I got bladder cancer myself 3 years ago it was found quite early and I was offered so much more treatment and care than she had. 

     All the best,

    Latestart

  • Sorry to read this Ellen64, sending you love and hugs. Lynn xx

  • I am so sorry to hear about your position. My heart goes out to you, wishing you strength in your situation. Best Leo

  • Hi there Ellen64,

    I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope this group can be a source of loving care and support for you.

    Sending love and wishing you and your family the very best
    Nikki x

  • I'm so sorry to be reading this Ellen. I wish you and your family strength and peace at this time. I'm so sorry that you don't have as much time with your Husband as you expected. Keep making memories.

    Sending you all my love, Ade xxx Heart️