Hello, I have recently been diagnosed with high-grade stage 1 bladder cancer. I've had two TURBT procedures and will begin BCG chemo in the next couple of weeks. My wife and I have recently separated and we have two children, aged 14 and 11. They know that Dad is sore after some operations however we have not mentioned the C word as yet. Now that I have a firm diagnosis I feel that the kids should know what's going on. Their mother has been reluctant to talk about it and keeps postponing. I disagree with her position.
I'm really looking for some help and direction on how to move forward in a way that's best for the kids.
