the plan was to remove my bladder so I traveled to guys hospital in London and had scans and unfortunately they found it had spread to my lymph nodes. Then had to have nephrostomy bags put into my kidneys both side and their a bloody pain! So I had to start chemo straight away. Then they thought I might of been pregnant so had more scans and delaying chemo, they found nothing and I was able to start chemo. I've been wearing the cold cap has anyone else had this? I hate it!! But if it saves my hair then its worth it. But I also don't mind if my hair falls out I can get a funky purple wig! 
Welcome to the group xx I hope there will be someone on here who has advice for you as every bit helps xx you are very positive and that can only be a bonus when we find ourselves in a situation we never ever expected xx I am 65 and found out I had bladder cancer Dec 14th I really didn't expect to be told that but as time goes on you gradually accept it and change your mindset 
I find the waiting for results and treatments the most difficult times but like lots on here you learn to live with the waiting and take one day at at a time .. good luck for the future and keep your positive attitude take care xx
Thank you for all the lovely kind words. So nice talking to people who know what I'm going through 
