The moment you know your other half knows your ok…

Hi Nigel 

so nice to read your words I thought it was just me who has used these sort of trips out spending money to bring some normality back if it needs replacing get it done is my attitude these days as once it’s done the feeling is great it’s like your shedding weight of the things that are on your mind but never quite get round to do so far this year we’ve replaced the kitchen bought a new tv and a new sofa it helps keep the mind focused and relaxed pal 

Ste 

The deodorant story reminds me of my cousin who was in a rush for an interview and sprayed herself with hairspray instead of deodorant  

100% Ste, my favourite line used to be “ I’ll do it tomorrow “ now if it needs doing I do it straight away…how you getting on…im in the best place I’ve ever been….this week was rough with the winter bug..sent my anxiety through the roof…enjoying my free time before BCG round two…

It did sting Jane..did she get the job? 

I bet it did.Yes as far as I know she got the job.

Hi Nigel 

yes I’m good not back at the hospital till next year now March infact but as we know it can be a difficult journey this so not counting my chickens just taking it a appointment at a time  seeing how I feel day to day that’s all I can do at the moment so far so good on the day to day still watching the urine like a hawk I guess that will never go away to be honest but it’s not a bad thing as being vigilant is key glad things have settled down for you Nigel and you and the mrs are finding time to do the normal things in life all the best pal

Ste  

Hi Nigel,

Hope the misses physio went well.

Bit of retail therapy eh. Good on you, on getting things sorted.

I'm not a fan of shopping but shopping in Currys I can do, bet you can't wait for everything to be set up and installed.

Poor armpits hope they recovered lol.

Trevor

Ste, the checking the loo is my normal life now…on my last phone appointment I was told I have to keep moving and if there is blood in the wee it’s to be expected…it’s still a shock when it happens, enjoy your time off…with hindsight I’m sort of glad I’m being checked up on, the peace of mind is worth the panic building up to results ect… every now and again I steal a little look at Mrs Nigel, I can see the life back in her eyes…to see her smiling and laughing makes me happy..

love to all Nigel xx

Hi Nigel

We definitely need a "LOL" button on here   

I do love a bit of retail therapy but my Mum was the best. Just after my parents got married in the 50s they went shopping for an electric fire and came home with a dog called Yogi . My in-laws once went shopping for a kettle and came home with a caravan. 

Love Ade xx

Hi Trevor, yep she has exercises to do, but I’ll make sure we get them done…I did see a lovely TV, but £3800:is a bit out of my price range…hahahaha

armpits are good thank you…hahaha you know when you think the whole world is against you, it was one of those weeks…

how you getting on my friend…