Best laid plans!!!!

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Having had my bladder, womb etc removed in March 22 and a clear scan in July decided to have a holiday.Took advice from oncologist and specialist nurse about pain around my groin and genitals, all saying it was nerve pain. Booked what I considered to be a very expensive saga cruise to the Norway. Nervous about traveling with stoma but lots of careful planing went into it

Lasted 2 nights on board before being taken off the ship with a suspected blockage. First hospital confirmed blockage by CT scan, results available within the hour. Doctor at first hospital told me it’s common following my surgery. Transferred to university hospital by air ambulance, told by two further doctors blockage very common and a straight forward operation. In the event it cleared itself. Discharged from hospital after 6 nights.Hospital told me the outcome of the scan, lesions on liver and a spot/bubble on lung. Hospital care was brilliant. Once in hotel found groin and pain in genitals got worse and unable to sit which is very inconvenient a embarrassing, standing up to eat etc. Finally got home having spent most of the flight standing up. GP appointment, first face to face for 12 months, accepted my own diagnoses of vulvodynia and believes I have a cyst. Antibiotics prescribed. If the do not work referral to gynaecologist who will lance it. Have a CT scan booked here next week and have been advised to tell them of scan in Norway to get results asap. First three monthly scan following operation took 28 days to get results. If I have lesions on my liver I need chemotherapy asap.

All this has been a painful, expensive learning curve. Had following my operation I had received information about potential problems following surgery and symptoms to look out for t would have been better informed and better able to make decisions but I left hospital in March with nothing written down and no follow up appointment with the surgeon. This seems such a shame as what the surgeon did was very skilful, have lots of written information when I had a tooth extracted!
Anita

  • Oh dear, what a shame the holiday didn't turn out as you would have liked. Sounds very good treatment in Norway - hope you had insurance for it. I felt the same after my op, lots of info in advance about what they were going to do, but nothing to bring home as a reference. Even in hosp, not much explanation - I couldn't understand why they kept asking how much I'd drunk (eventually brought me pencil & paper to log cups of water). Wasn't until I went home with a record chart (for neobladder) to record input/output, that I twigged.

    Hope all improves for you from now on.

  • That is such a shame.They really should provide information on complications following cystectomy.You can get so many aches and pains afterwards and knowing what is usual and when to get help is not always clear.Best wishes for your scan and going forward.I hope you are in less pain now.It sounds like you will need another holiday to recover from this last one.Love Jane x

  • Hi Spring22, sorry you had such a horrible experience on your holiday. Norwegian medical support sounds fantastic, which was I guess the most important thing, but rotten to be mid-travel when things went wrong. I agree that our NHS service gives out tons of documentation ref what the surgery involves, but not so much about common side effects or obstacles in the path of recovery. Possibly they worry about the power of suggestion, who knows. I haven't had a cystectomy but I had a hysterectomy almost 30 years ago and I felt it took a full 6 months  to return my normal life. I went back to work at 12 weeks as advised by hospital, and cried every night when I got home. In fact it was a year before I felt totally fit again. Rest up. if you can. Fingers crossed for your scan next week.