Up-date on Bladder Removal

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I had my bladder removed on 22 February almost 2 weeks ago. Post-op was uncomfortable and sometimes painful, and not what I would call a holiday in the sun. Problems: one day of the raging trots ,folllowed by the exact opposite of 6 days of being unable to poo. The later has,today, seems to have resolved itself, following a strict fruit/veg diet. Extreme weakness and tiredness has been another problem, but this is very slowly improving. The wound was leaky at the lower end, but dressings are changed daily. I have tried to get out for very short walks, but it takes me 12 minutes to walk (sorry, shuffle) 200 metres - my usual walking pace is 3-4mph. The constipation resulted in the feeling of a very tight, painful, abdomen. I am on a course of self-injections - a bit tricky at first. It sometimes seems impossible that I will ever return to a normal, very active,life, but the staples holding the wound, and the small catheters in the stoma, are due to be removed on Tuesday 09.03. I haven't changed a bag on my own yet, but I regard that as the least of my worries at the moment. On Tuesday the doctor will also tell if the cancer has been eliminated or if it is still present. I recommend a no sugar diet based on fruit, veg, and pulses.

The worst thing about the entire experience was the noise in the hospital with many patients behaving with total disregard for others, by talking loudly for hours on end, yakking into phones often into the early hours of the morning, and general anti-social behaviour. Hospitals are not pubs or bars; they are places were patients should expect a calm, quiet, relaxing, and stress free environment that fosters the healing process. The fact that this atmosphere of healing tranquillity is no longer respected is a disgrace and a scandal.

  • Hi . Good to know you got through it ok. It is probably understandable how you are feeling at the moment after such a big op. I know what you mean about hospitals. I was only in for four days  and people were screaming and shouting all night. Bit scary at times. I hope your recovery goes well. Best wishes.

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  • Hi Verteranrunner, glad you are into recovery. Constipation after major surgery is a nightmare, sounds like you are eating right things to shift things. Beetroot is my go to for easing the flow. Understand about noise levels in hospitals, I'm afraid that people get drawn into screens and phones and forget everything else that is happening around them. Hope you are safely home in a better healing environment. Best wishes. x

  • Hi veteranrunner,
    You’ve just been through one hell of a major operation so bound to feel like you do for sometime yet.
    But, things will definitely improve, so hang in there.

    Your experience of other patients resonated with me!
    I’ll never forget a chap in the bed opposite mine shouting down the phone to his wife how he’d asked for extra toast and drinks but he got the standard breakfast .

    the portions are nothing like the cafe we go on Sunday’s, and I wouldn’t have fed yesterday’s dinner to the dog”  he screamed.

    Some people! So ungrateful. 

    keep positive.
    Chasam

  • Oh that all sounds so familiar! I learnt to take small steps, slightly bent forward, instead of my usual head up strides. Frustrating, but it will improve. Try to go a little further each day - two short walks are better than one long one - with plenty of rest after every exertion. Concentrate of protein & carbs for healing & energy, eating something every couple of hours. 

    There are certainly too many noises in hosp, even at night there are doors banging, machines beeping etc. When I got home, even Mr T's keyboard clatter annoyed me when I just wanted peace & quiet. 

  • My wife had the same and I initially changed her bag but 2 weeks in she proudly told me she had done it herself. You will hopefully feel much better quickly now having got over the worst part. Best wishes. Know what you mean about noise, my last tumour removal, the guy next door had the TV on in the early hours.

  • My husband was driven very nearly actually demented by the noise on the orthopaedic ward in September, as he has Asperger's, and the staff had no quiet place to move him to. They moved him from the bay with 2 dementia sufferers they could not control. But the new bay was in front of the desk and the chattering of the night staff was even worse.... Matrons in my youth [I'm only 63 now] in and out of hospital, would not have stood for it. I blame the training, if the staff do not get told how important decent rest is for quick good healing they can't be blamed entirely.

  • Thanks, Denby, and everyone else who responded. It seems that noise and anti-social behaviour is a major problem in hospitals and causes distress to many patients. A dark shadow over the NHS that is not recognised as a problem that requires a solution.

  • Hope you'll soon be stronger ...everyday will hopefully find you that little bit on the mend..take care

  • Hi,Good to know you got through the surgery.I felt less fatigued as time went on.It is not long since your operation so early days in your recovery.I’m sorry that you had to put up with noise in hospital.Hospitals are far too noisy.I had my own room after the cystectomy but there was a cantankerous old man next door who shouted continuously.Best wishes for a peaceful and smooth recovery.Love Jane

  • Hi V great news that you are feeling better. The lack of energy is awful, I am a lazy person but was shocked at what I could not do. Healing takes time but now I'm back to normal, 

    Hospitals are definitely not a place for tranquility which is why they want you out in a short time.

    You will obviously feel better when you get home.

    Healing takes time but go with it and it will all pan out

    Inanna x

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