Morning all,
It's now just over four years since I had three months of Gem/Cis chemo and then RC and a year since I had a bit of follow up surgery to fix a surgical wound herna. I am feeling very well (tempting providence to say that, I know). I've not been notified of the fourth annual check up but given the NHS and Southmead, Bristol are up to their necks in Covid muck and bullets, I'm not expecting a call just yet.
The 85% chance of survival to five years seems to be working so far. My GP said last week that if I feel well, look well, my vital signs are good, am not losing weight (I wish!) and am still able to enjoy what life chucks my way then there is a very high probability that I am healthy.
Over four years I estimate I've used nearly 1500 urostomy pouches, 1500 adaptor rings, 1500 disposal bags, 3000 wipes and 200 cans of adhesive remover spray, all of it free on prescription. Not to mention the extra washing caused by the occasional pouch failure, nearly always my fault for bending over when it needs emptying but it's not reached my socks yet!
I continue to do just what I did before I had surgery except I am retired now. Covid times apart, boating, gardening, house maintenance, holidays, pubbing, eating out, theatre, cinema, walking the dogs and volunteering have continued just as before.Yes, there are days when I still curse what happened and ponder the cause (probably due to many years spent working around smokey pubs) but then the sun shines out of a gin clear sky or the rain (it's nearly always the rain at the moment) hits my balding head and makes me smile because at least I can feel it which would not be an option but for the intervention of my GP, oncologist, surgeon and nursing staff.
I write this merely to demonstrate to those just diagnosed and facing the grim choice of what treatment to have, that life after having your bladder out can be as close to normal as it was before bladder cancer knocked on your door.
And now, it's time to get the mad spaniel out for a walk.
KBO,
CB.
Hello CB. Great to know you are doing well. A very reassuring story to give hope to those starting on the path. I'll have a virtual pint with you. Best wishes going forward.
Hi CB
That is wonderful and I can vouch for what you say. It will be Basil's and my 1st anniversary in March and I am so grateful to him and also my Consultant and his team for giving me a chance of a good life and I dont miss getting up in the night to do a pee either
Hi and welcome to the community. Sorry you have not had a response yet. I have not had RC, so can't help, but giving your post a bump and hopefully someone will be along with advice. Best wishes.
Hi Lottie123,It’s early days for your husband and he will have to take it easy to start with,no lifting for several weeks and I wouldn’t advise bending too much either.Recovery times vary from person to person but it usually takes months rather than weeks.I felt much better 8 mths after surgery.I was back to gardening before then.I went back to caring for my elderly disabled mother but the constant bending and pushing her wheelchair was too much for my abdominal muscles.Things should improve for your husband with time.Love and best wishes Jane
Hi Lottie123
Once the stoma has calmed down to a regular size and the surgical wounds have healed, your husband should be measured for a lycra support band/cummerbund to wear around his middle. I wear mine when lifting and shifting to prevent herniating the stoma site where there is an obvious weakness in the abdominal wall.
I still carry 25kg bags of compost, pull and push lock gate beams but I do it with caution. Tossing heavy bales of straw and hay might be risky and he will feel the tugging on the deep scar tissue for some years.
CB
I may appear to be listening but in my head I'm all at sea.
lock gate beams... oh to be on a canal or river boat.
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