Hi,
I originally posted on the friends and family chat but didnt get a response so hoping maybe this may be a better place for my questions.
My grandfather was recently diagnosed with stage 3 bladder cancer. There's mention of lymph nodes too. and due to low kidney function, treatment options are limited.
Recently there was a discussion with the oncologist where they've decided my grandad will have 3 sessions of radiotherapy, eg monday wednesday friday and thats it.
From what iv read, a normal course of radiotherapy seems to be weeks long, and iv read that palliative radiotherapy is likely to be a short course.
My grandad and family have asked not to know the prognosis.
Now that the palliative term is in my mind im wondering if my grandad is close to end of life? i know there's no definitive answer, but the likelihood. Previously, i was thinking he may have a few years left but now im thinking it could be down to a few months.
In himself, hes not as strong and well as he was before diagnosis but he doesn't "look like he's at the end of life" (not that there should be a particular look) but he just doesnt look too ill.
I guess im trying to figure out how long we as a family have left with him and if we need the family to start isolating in order to see him sooner rather than later.
Wondering if anyone knows anything about these radiotherapy short courses and if it could be an indication of the time my grandad has left.
Thanks
Hi . This short term radiotherapy is usually designed to help slow any growth and control symptoms. It would be difficult for anyone to give you any idea of a time frame as everyone is different. From personal experience, I know some people can go downhill fairly quickly, while others continue to be treated and live normal lives for many years. I hope they can find some further treatment for your grandfather. Best wishes.
