Hi everyone,
I came across this forum by chance and have read a lot of the threads. What wonderful people you all are!
I had my TURBT on 14/06 after a long time waiting due to many issues with GP hospital etc and have not had a very good experience. I had no idea I was having this as it was not explained to me. All I was told in the 3 minute conversation I had with a doctor in the hospital the next day was ‘it went well, I think we got all the tumours, you can go home now’ first time I knew I had a TURBT was when I read my sick note!
I have got my appointment on Thursday and have to say feel a bit disheartened reading on here that I may need to have another one before I get any result.
I would like to ask if anyone could let me know if going privately for any follow up treatment is recommended.
any experiences would be good to hear about.
trying to stay positive and hoping I may be one of the lucky 2%!
Many thanks
Hi Gareth, gosh so much to take in and thank you for your reply, so pleased I found this forum before my appointment, I would have definitely been overwhelmed without all the help and advice I have so kindly been given on here, I am so grateful already
Hi Sharon! Sorry to hear about you’re story but stay positive,
I had my first TURBT on may the 4th and received my results on the 21st of June, it was a 7 week wait, but all in all it was worth the wait as it was benign! The long waiting period was due to the results being sent back multiple times for further tests to ensure they were correct. Upon receiving the results he said I was his third benign bladder tumour that week, which he said is unheard of, he blamed the increase in tumour growths on covid, due to isolation everyone’s immunity was low.
For reference I had a 2cm tumour.
I’m just sharing to say there is always hope, and whatever happens I’m sure it’ll be okay.
Jake.
Hi everyone, I would like to thank you all for your support on here as it helped me prepare for my results today. Unfortunately it did not go well. I had the best plan to go in there with a list of questions and to ask if I could record the meeting, hubby prepped to ask anything I may forget. Well, phone and list left in car due to panic as we were running late due to traffic jam! Anyway walked into a room of 4 people, lovely consultant explained I had aggressive muscle invasive cancer, with a few varieties of cancer present as well (not his exact words I may add). As you all prepared me for, I was given a truck load of info, not much has sunk in yet, but to sum up I need PET scan, some nuclear thingy on my kidneys, 9 weeks of chemo and then bladder removal along with uterus and ovaries etc.
Still feeling a bit numb at the moment to be honest, I’m a very pragmatic person as a rule but finding it a bit hard to hold it together at the moment
Hi SharonO, I'm so sorry to hear its muscle invasive. Not the news any of us wanted for you. There are lots of people on here who have had Bladder removal and will support you through this journey, as will all of us on here. Take it one day at a time.
Sending you and your husband love and hugs.
Ade xx
Hi SharonO . Not the news you were hoping for and a lot to take in. Early days yet, but once you start on treatment path, you have something positive to focus on. These extra checks are par for the course and gives them a more detailed picture of what they are dealing with. I had six sessions of chemo, (usually gemcitabine and cisplatin) and tolerated it quite well. I was also Muscle invasive and that was ten years ago. When you get your report through, you will find things easier to digest. Best wishes.
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