Stoma questions

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Can I ask with a stoma, can you drive with one? What happens at night? Is the bag still in place around the waist or is it hung on a stand? How long between emptying?

  • Hi Coojee,At night you have a much larger night bag that plugs into the day bag.I had a stand in hospital but I keep my night bag in a bowl.The night bag has a longer tube so you will be able to turn over in bed.Not having to get up in the night is a bonus.In the day I empty my bag regularly as I don’t like it to get too full.It’s easy to empty if I’m out so that’s not a problem.I can’t drive but it shouldn’t be an issue.My partners late father had an ileostomy and he used to drive.Best wishes Jane 

  • We have a friend in his late 70s with a colostomy and he thinks nothing of driving his sports coupe from Derbyshire to the North East to see family.

    Denby

  • My husband has had a stoma for over 2 yrs. It’s a faff- but he’s still with us and his outlook is good.  During the day, he wears a supportive belt over it. We have just returned from a week in Scotland and the only thought is to make sure you stop regularly at services to empty it in case there is a traffic jam. I have no stoma, but I need to stop too!! At night he puts his night bag into a strong bag for safety ( Morrisons e.g. ) and he lies on a small waterproof mat just in case. In 2 yrs there have only been a couple of incidents. He seems to manage well while sleeping. It is something one gets used to. If it saves life, it is so worth it! Don’t be scared- it works.

  • Hi Coojee

    Can't answer the driving question but hope my responses will help with the other 2 questions:

    I make a point of emptying my bag every 2 hours or so. I don't like the bag getting full; my night bag is on a stand and I sleep on my back.

    Hope this helps

    Love Inanna x 

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  • Thank you. Can you explain the belt a little please? Does the bag tend to fall off otherwise?

    Nick

  • Thank you

    Do you empty into a regular toilet?

  • Hi,I empty mine into a regular toilet,you can sit or stand but I prefer to stand.If I’m gardening or doing heavier chores I wear a belt which attaches onto the hooks on the stoma bag.The hooks are just above the adhesive plate.The belt gives extra support which can reduce the risk of developing a parastomal hernia.I was given the belt from the stoma nurse.The stoma bag shouldn’t come off.I was lucky to find a stoma bag make that has suited from the start.Some people have to try different makes to see which one feels right for them.This is important to reduce the risk of leaks.I had a couple of tiny leaks when I first had a stoma but none since.Love Jane