I have bladder cancer and they found it in lungs

Hi Gabbygip, what rotten news for you and your family to deal with. Glad you have family caring and supporting at this hard time. I can hear that you have invested all your energy and love to your children and now they are adults it is their turn to give back to you and I'm sure they will be keen to be there for you. It was definitely what I wanted to do when my lovely parents got older and had health issues, Naturally you may want to protect them from your darkest fears but we are all here listening, and we have shared many of those fears in our own situations. Keep in touch. Sending you lots of love. Hx

This must be a fresh down point for you at a time when you are recovering from major surgery. It is time to look after yourself, despite the inevitable emotional toll of not wanting to hurt your loved ones. They may need support & counselling from an outside source in order to help support you. Feel free to come and unburden yourself here. Very best wishes for you at such a difficult time.

Gabbygip

My heart goes out to you. You have come to the right place for support xxxx

We're all here for you Gabbygip xxx

Hello Gabbygip

That's a proper blow after having surgery. I hope the chemo has the desired effect. While you're having that, it may be worth mentioning immunotherapy treatment as well to your oncologist. A friend of mine had bladder cancer spread to her bones, lungs and liver and has had a good outcome after treatment with Atezolizumab.

I wish you good fortune.

CB

Really hoping for a good outcome for you thinking of you xx

Thinking of you Gabbygip, all the best with your chemo.

Luce x

I hope the chemo helps,love & best wishes.Jane xx

Hope all goes well stay strong all the best 

Hi, I would be very interested in any more inf ormation about immunotherapy. My husband's bladder cancer has spread to his pelvic bones. We have been told it is incurable with a prognosis if 1-2 years with chemo, immunotherapy and possibly some radiotherapy. 

We are devastated find this out when we thought it was just to get a date for bladder removal after 3 cycles of chemo to get that extra 5%.

Was that an error, did the cancer escape during the chemo? It makes no matter now. 

How is immunotherapy? How is life quality from here on in? 

Many thanks