Morning peeps recent diagnosis out the blue bile duct cancer stage 4. I’m healthy active , swim regular etc, I’m told surgery is not an option. Spread to liver and lung. Now had all scans biopsies and have a chemo plan that sounds really tough. Will be sad to loose my locks and have side effects but if I can make another few months/ maybe year I’m ready. Question - I’m holding back telling friends at moment, only told family, some say I should come clean and tell everyone but that’s not something I want to do, Anyone else feeling pushed into telling people?
