Joining the anal cancer club!

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Hello everyone

I'm Ali, 52 year old awesome woman living in Reading, UK.  After having some symptoms that I'd put down to a bout of food poisoning in mid-July and/or food poisoning and/or a shitty time at work - I had a colonoscopy on 19 October where they found Terry the Tumor!  It was confirmed as cancer and last week, that it was in my nearby lymph nodes.

I've got my CT scan tomorrow to help them workout the measurements for my radiation and will be on that winning formula of chemo and radiation - starting treatment in 3 weeks ish....

I feel healthy - I mean right now it feels like I've got a hot walnut up my butt - not so bad. 

Unfortunately, yesterday we said farewell to our beloved dog, Dyson and well it's fair to say it's feeling like a super shitty year.  I'm trying desperately not to let the grief derail me - as I know that a strong and positive mindset will help me - along with my husband, family, friends and now you lovely lot, oh and Buddy (our lovely lab) And Dyson is at peace now and wouldn't want us crying for days on end...(Currently hourly!)

Anyway that's enough about me! Looking forward to being an active and supportive member of this community - knowledge is power and together we are stronger.

Much love and light to you all!

Alikat 

  • So sorry to hear about your dog. Hoping your treatment goes well. Xxx

  • Hi Alikat,

    Welcome, and firstly I am so sorry to hear about Dyson. It is tough to lose a precious pooch but I hope your good memories will help you through.

    As regards your treatment - you might want to start preparing your skin for radiotherapy by moisturising your underbits, although they will give you some heavy duty stuff once you start. I would also advise you to get hold of a sitz bath, (Amazon have them) it fits over your toilet seat and can be a godsend when wiping your bottom can be really sore. You can also 'go' into the water which lots of people found easier. I'd also say start planning food you like, especially small things like soup and crackers which may be al you feel like some of the time.

    Take care xx