Hip / back pain

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Hello all, 

It’s been a while! Found myself checking in here as currently struggling with excruciating hip pain to the point I sometimes can’t stand up (which is quite bizarre!). Or I might get up from a sitting position and set off and be fine and then suddenly experience excruciating pain and literally have to grab hold of something or fall to the floor. Luckily the rest of me is in ok condition so I’m ok once I’m down! And I’m able to get up again once the pain subsides. 

Have put off going to the doctors as I expect these things (and have suffered with hip discomfort these last 4 years) but after nearly 4 weeks now and it’s not getting  better with self care I’m going to have to admit defeat! 

My radiation treatment pointed towards my right hip so it’s no surprise that there has been damage in that area but this is a whole new level! Obviously at first I thought this was just a blip like I’ve had along the way and would get better with some gentle exercises and regular pain killers (which always normally work) but as time has gone on I’ve begun to get myself in a pickle so just in here for some reassurance. 

I had a DEXA scan in February and all good so I can’t imagine it’s anything but a  flare up or whatever but you just can’t help it, can you, at 3am… wondering. Also noticed that the flow of my urine is different which is unusual  I Had the same thing when I had my cancer, it was one of the last things I had just before I was diagnosed  

My 6 monthly MRI & CT is due in 2 weeks so am tempted to do nothing until then as GP will always just fastrack me out of panic and then it turns out to just be something benign and I’d like to get out of that mindset. afterall I am 4 years and 2 months clear! 

Probably just lack of sleep and such a long time in really bad pain making me feel worse! It’s just weird that even some of the strongest painkillers I still have leftover from my treatment don’t even touch the sides of this pain. I even resorted to trying 5ml or my morphine solution the other day and all that did was keep me awake! Didn’t even begin to help the pain. 

Should I call the GP - there isn’t anything they’ll be able to give me that I don’t already have (still like a pharmacy here Joy) and I don’t want extra radiation from scans that I don’t need as I have been scanned a LOT these last 4 years. I blame being seen privately as they just throw everything at it if you mention anything at all… which is obviously great in some circumstances but when I read all the concerns about how much radiation our scans produce and the long term damage it can do I’m regretting slightly having agreed to them all but, as we know, the fear of recurrence is real  

Anyhoo, sorry to ramble on but I just don’t like to worry family or friends with this and felt like I needed to be with some like-minded chums.

Hope everyone else is doing ok

much love

PPR xx 

  • Hi  

    Sorry you are in pain. I would speak to the gp see if he/she has any advice. My personal advice would be do weight training and build the muscle around to support your hips. I should just say i think weight training is the answer to most things. Ive seen people at my gym who have been written off by their doctor have huge improvements, it takes time and consistency but so worth it. Sending hugs. Xx

  • Hello   thank you so much for your reply. Yes I do do weight training and I use a Pilates reformer which I find super helpful. Also have a dog which I walk regularly so I feel I’ve got good core strength etc on my side now (which I definitely didn’t before). Ordinarily when this pain pops up it’s because I may have done a bit too much walking or have slept funny or something. But this time it’s just different somehow. Can’t put my finger on it but mostly the pain is different and at a whole new level. I suppose it could be something like a trapped nerve added into the mix but just clutching at straws here. Whatever it is it’s not very happy Laughing I just need to rest it and probably give the GP a heads up. I suppose an ordinary xray might the way forward if I can’t wait the two weeks until my scans. 

    Thank you for being so kind and listening and responding. Much appreciated . X

  • Hi PPR,

    Really sorry to hear that you’re in such pain. It sounds awful and could as you say be nerve pain. The fact that your scans are coming up very soon is good, but if it’s really unbearable I would go to your GP.

     I have every sympathy with you as I developed awful Lower back and hip pain back in February, after finishing treatment last November. A spinal MRI showed several areas of significant stenosis at the base of my spine with nerve contact. I had never before had any sort of back ache and had always been physically active and fit. It was utterly debilitating and my gp referred me to the pain clinic as an urgent referral. The waiting time is 46 weeks and I am still waiting. I have been paying to go to a private back pain clinic weekly for osteopathic treatment which has helped to take it down a few notches but still far from good. I am also doing specific targeted exercises. In the meantime my GP keeps prescribing painkillers but as they are so strong I’m reluctant to take them regularly. Sorry to go on about me , as this is about you, but just want to say how much I feel for you being in this situation. 

    I really hope that you can access a diagnosis for your pain and some effective treatment. If it is nerve pain there are specific medications for that, such as Pregabalin.  I hope you get some help quickly.

    Sending hugs xx

  • Hi,

    I'm wonder if you may actually have hip pain from something completely unrelated; I have a bit of arthritis in my hips and have had one replaced just before I was diagnosed (had hip problems from childhood) so I do occasionally get hip pain that I am fairly sure is this, and not related to AC. I am not saying your is arthritis, but just that it's probably nothing sinister, especially if you are being monitored

    I have just last week had a check up from oncologist - I am  four years post treatment too - and he said it was extremely unlikely to recur after this amount of time. I think treatment varies from area to area, so I am not sure how your treatment is differing from mine, but I am also being treated privately and I have not had any scans for three years, just the lovely DRE. If anything was going on in your hip, or your bladder, or anywhere else, I am sure something would have shown up by now.

    You sound like you are in a lot of pain and I would possibly look at going to see your GP as it might well be something you need different treatment or meds for. If all your scans are clear but you are still suffering, you will end up back there in any case.

    I am sorry this all seems a bit garbled, but I do understand those awful feelings when your brain just starts spiralling. Fear of recurrence is very real for us all, but keep telling yourself you are well monitored, and at four years it is unlikely.

    I wish you all the very best, please let us know how you get on xx



  • Hello   I think you’re probably absolutely right, it is mostly likely arthritic pain. Although the hip pain I have is apparently related to the radiation - I think it causes damage to the bones and tissue along that radiation line? It’s just being particularly stubborn and annoying this time. Normally I can be on top of it in no time as I’m really pro active but just can’t seem to knock this one on the head. I’m not really thinking is anything sinister as it would be practically unheard of after 4 years and bone mets are very way down the line in order of mets for our cancer. Just a bit fed up and out of self care options and shouldn’t have googled it  Joy  (will I never learn???). 

    Sometimes you just get to such a good point and then left field another curve ball arrives. It’s just so annoying. My girls are on half term and I’m just hobbling about and not able to do much. I might call The Marsden tomorrow and just say can we bring the scans forward not because I think it’s sinister but because the scan will also show what my hip is up to and then that might expedite getting it sorted which would be a huge relief! I feel more 95 than 55 right now! 

    many thanks for taking the time to reply and the advice, so appreciated x