Been absent, but at least with good news!

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Hi Friends,

Though I have been reading posts on occasion, it’s been a while since I logged in and posted.  The last week of January, I traveled to see my oncology team at MD Anderson in Houston.  January 26 marked one year since I finished chemo-radiation.  It is always an emotionally heavy time, these every-3-month check-ins, so I sometimes have to give myself some distance from cancerland—thus the bit of absence from this board.

The great news is that I’m continuing NED!  This round of check-ups included bloodwork, CT w/wo contrast of chest, abdomen, and pelvis, anoscopy, and a chat with my med onc, colorectal specialist, and radiation oncologist.  Everything looks great, no problems or areas of concern at all. Period.

Furthermore, just before I traveled to see my team at MD Anderson, I met with my local oncologist.  She is thrilled with my recovery and told me to ask the med onc at MDACC if she should arrange for my port to be removed when I returned home.  This was a surprise to me—I thought I’d have to keep the port until I’m officially “cured” in 3 more years.  I got excited at the prospect of having it removed, and excited that the local oncologist seems to think I won’t need it again.  BUT (because in cancerland, you know there’s always a “butt”), my medical oncologist says he recommends all patients keep their ports for 2 years, so one more year with the port—oh well.  The presence of the port, itself, is not a big deal, it doesn’t bother me.  I guess when the local oncologist told me to ask the team leader if it can come out, I just got a little ahead of myself.

I have a very good relationship with my radiation oncologist, so I asked her fairly specifically what she thinks the risk of recurrence is for me at this point.  I can’t find data specific to my treatment plan, and anyway, I think it’s always best to ask these questions of the doctors who actually know the details of one’s own case.  She said there’s not a lot of data on the specific treatment plan I had, because it’s kind of a custom plan and new approach, but based on the treatment outcomes I’ve had and what she knows of other patients who received the plan I received, she said she’d go on the record and say she thinks “we got it all.”  She said some important milestones in recovery are the 6 month, 12 month, 2 year, and 4 year points.  The 2 year NED mark shows a dramatic drop-off in the chance of recurrence, so this next year is very important to my case!

Anyway, four days after returning home from that trip, I awoke with an ugly cold, and then about 5 days into the cold, I developed conjunctivitis!  Arrrrrgggghhhh!  Of course, this makes me worry—is my immune system not healthy?  I tell myself that I have 2 kids in school who have had rotating colds/illnesses since November, and that I, myself, had a little cold in December that obviously didn’t cause any problems for my cancer recovery.  Everything is just a worry now, ya know?

So, I’ll get back to reading and responding—always so many good discussions here, so much encouragement, so much support, so many reasons to celebrate.

Best wishes to all,

Red

  • I got conjunctivitis right around the same time you did, and had exactly the same reaction! Quack quack, OMG, my immune system is still funky! My radiologist said that's unlikely, though. It's so good to see you back on the board and to hear how well you're doing!!

    Hugs

    Suz

  • Hi Red (  )

    This is great news!! I’m so pleased to be reading this. Don’t ever feel you need to explain your absence from the forum just know we’re here when you need us. 

    I’ve also had concerns about my immune system since treatment, the information out there is really mixed! Following chemo alone apparently our immune systems can take anything between 3 weeks to several months to recover, I suppose depending on the chemo regime you’ve been on but with radiotherapy the information is a bit sketchier, from what I understand this is because the lymph system is part of our immune system & to some degree this is often targeted or gets radiation fallout. Also living the way we all have throughout the pandemic & it’s aftermath I think has left us all with reduced immunity to even the common cold, I’ve always had a pretty robust immune system but I had a virus a week before Christmas (very similar to when I had COVID 16 months ago but tested negative) things seemed to improve over Christmas & New Year but then it returned with a vengeance the first week in January & completely laid me flat for 4 days, I now suspect it was flu! I’m only just now feeling I’ve shook off the last of the symptoms so I completely understand your concerns but as you say you’ve got school age kids that bring allsorts home & with me I have a customer facing role at work so I’m face to face with a multitude of people throughout my workday. 

    It’s great to see you back Red & once again I’m over the moon to hear your amazing news. 

    Nicola

  • Red, I am so so happy for you.  I know that this is 'just' a forum, and we all only know each other through exchanged conversations on here but we do get involved with each other through our shared diagnoses, so to wake up to your post this morning was just wonderful!  You must have returned home with an added spring in your step, and I am sorry you then became unwell.  My daughters jokingly refer to school as a cesspit of germs with the constant sharing of childhood ailments.  I hope you have fully recovered, we have all started dosing ourselves with echinacea, amongst other things, to try and boost our immune systems.

    Welcome back, and stay healthy!

    Irene xx

  • Oh NO, Suz!  This pink eye stuff is the pits, right (but it’s not cancer, which is basically my response to any lesser physical ailment these days).  Thanks for the reassurance on the immune system thing—logically, I know it’s not reasonable to believe that everyone who has successfully beat cancer never gets any other illness, but the December cold and now this one are the first times I’ve been sick since pre-pandemic!  Anything new rings alarm bells for me.

    I do hope you’re better!

    Hugs back,

    Red

  • Thank you, Nicola!  Yes, in all, I’m super pleased.  And now that the dumb illnesses are done, I have some forward momentum again and get back to things I need/want to do (treating a head cold was never on that list!).

    I think you’re spot-on about the immune system stuff.  I was told that after systemic chemo, my immune system should be up and running again by 6 months, BUT, yes, there was then radiation.  Even though I didn’t have lymph spread and lymph nodes weren’t a specific target in my plan, they were certainly in the field of radiation, so I also assume that may slow the immune system some.  My bloodwork was pristine, but my body is just different now, and yes, the pandemic measures probably left us under-prepared for the more minor viruses and contagions out there.  Don’t get me wrong—I’m deeply grateful for the measures that I and society took to keep those of us who were more vulnerable safe when COVID was its most threatening, but like any action, there were consequences, to a lesser degree, as a result of all of that masking and distancing and so on.

    Just like my kiddos at school, I’m sure you’re suddenly being bombarded with germs in your customer-facing role!  Hang in there!  We’ll all build our various immunities again, eventually!

    Best wishes,

    Red

  • Hello Irene!  Thank you for the warm words—yes, we sure do give a darn about each other, despite the distance, and I really appreciate that.  I did return home feeling lighter, even went to a black tie event 2 days after returning home (before I became ill).  Every time I return from these trips, I need a day or two to emotionally decompress, a day or two to celebrate, and then I just want to GET GOING ON LIFE.  The cold and pink eye I had absolutely paused that “get going” part, so today, stuff is getting done!  I even warned my husband, who works from home, to not interrupt me today.  There’s a lot around the house that has been driving me nuts for the past couple of weeks!  Ha!

    And yes, I hear ya on the immune boosts.  I’ve pulled out all of the stops—ginger tea with honey and lemon, echinacea teas, humidifier aimed at my face while I sleep, Neti pot, salt water gargles, diffuser with essential oils…ALL the things…lol!  Trying to keep good sleep habits, lots of water, and even light exercise through the illnesses, but now I’m even bored with that.  Tomorrow, back to my usual run, and next week, I’ll add the strength training again.  Onward to spring!!

    Best wishes!

    Red

  • Except for the cold and conjunctivitis Wink this is such great news!   Congratulations!   Your posts have been so helpful on this journey, delighted to see your update!