Anal cancer

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Hi just been diagnosed with cancer of the anus. Am so scared of the treatment. I've been told 2 months of radio and chemo 5 days a week. This sounds so over whelming and would like to hear from anyone that has gone through it. 

  • Hi

    The standard treatment is 28 days (Monday - Friday) w weekends off so 5.5 weeks in total. 

    I am starting my treatment tomorrow and I am a worrier and a bit of a wuss but the people on this site are amazing and have been so friendly and helpful.  I am sure someone who has completed their treatment will be in touch but I will let you know how I get on.

    Deb1E

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  • Hi , 

    Sorry I’ve just seen your post. I was diagnosed with SCC anal cancer February 2018 & went through chemoradiotherapy last May/June & am now 14/15 months in remission. If you click on my name you can read my story a bit more in depth on my profile.

    As Deb has described the standard treatment & it’s delivery is usually radiotherapy & chemotherapy combined for 5.5 weeks, Monday to Friday only with weekends off all treatments. Delivery of the chemotherapy can vary from hospital to hospital but I think generally, as mine was, it’s given as an infusion day 1, the actual infusion is delivered through a cannula by a nurse with a syringe & takes a couple of minutes just prior to the first radiotherapy session then you’ll take chemo tablets twice a day each day of your radiotherapy.  The radiotherapy is delivered with you lying on a bed, similar to an X-ray machine & takes 5-10 minutes for a session to be completed. 

    I totally understand how overwhelming all of this is, we’ve all been there & felt the way you’re feeling so we can all sympathise, you’ll find people at all different stages of their journey here, some just diagnosed like yourself, some going through their treatment, some like me that are in remission & even some lovely people that still pop back on here that have been through their 5 years remission, declared cured & discharged. 

    Please if you have any questions just ask, it really doesn’t matter what it is, however big or small, however personal it may seem it won’t be the first time it’s been asked & someone on here will be able to give some advice or at the very least point you in the direction to get the answers you need. 

    Where you are right now it’s a bit of a whirlwind, diagnosis, scans, treatment planning, all very overwhelming, but things will settle down. I was terrified before my treatment began, I so didn’t want to go through all of that! but as I tell everyone once I’d got that first day over with I began to relax & the weeks I was in treatment passed really quickly. You’ll hear the same thing from many people on here. 

    I’ll just add one more thing for now, this treatment, although daunting, has really good curative rates & is successful for many, many people including myself, so keep that in the forefront of your mind. 

    Please don’t hesitate to ask any questions you have. 

    Nicola 

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    FormerMember

    Hi Itsabummer,. Welcome and now you know you are not alone.  Don't know how old or young you are, or male or female!  The facts are irrelevant, just be happy that you have been diagnosed and that your treatment will start soon!  I put off seeking a medical diagnosis (like so many others) so I am glad that you are now on journey to recovery to a full and happy life again!  As others have said the journey is scary before you start but once you have started it is very doable and will pass in the blink of an eye!  Was 67 when diagnosed, now 5.5 years on 73 and happy and worry free!  I've got here and so can you the success rate is very high.  Wasted years worrying about non-resident diseases, but when diagnosed thought well that's it so get on with it!  You can do it.  Just believe that you have the strength - mind over matter, it is very curable!  Keep in touch.  Mxx, with you all the way.  Never thought I would say it, but I am a very happy "old" lady, happier than before diagnosis!!

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi thanks for your kind and helpful message. I am a 59 year old lady. Unfortunately I am widowed and have to face this own my own with some help from my daughters. I am very lucky in the fact that have some good friends.  I see oncologist next week. 

    How ill did you feel during the treatment. Have heard some horror stories. 

    Thankyou once again.   Jax

  • Hi ,

    You’re in a very similar situation to myself, I’m 54 with 2 daughters & also widowed. So although family have supported me as much as possible through all of this my parents, sister & extended family live 200 miles away so for a large part of this journey it has been just me & my girls. 

    One bit of advice I would give is please pay little attention to the horror stories. I spoke separately to my specialist nurse & oncologist about the horrors I’d heard about this treatment & they both said that what I was reading was the worst of the very worst. 

    I didn’t feel ill as such at all throughout treatment, yes there’s no getting away from the fact that you do get sore back & front ‘down there’ but you’ll be supplied with plenty of pain relief & creams to help deal with that, the biggest thing for me was the fatigue, although a nana nap during the day & early nights sorted that out. Everyone reacts slightly different to the treatment but this was my experience, I hope some other people will see your post & be along soon to share their experiences & offer you a bit of reassurance. 

    Nicola 

  • HiJax

    im a 52 year young anal cancer survivor!!!! 

    Went through treatment July/August 2018. It is not very pleasant but it works! My own experience was I kept well until maybe week 4, radiation cystitis set it so very sore to pee and bottom was burnt!  I got fabulous pain relief from our hospital,,,, longtec and shortec and also a morphine based gel. Most importantly it killed my T4 tumour. 

    We have 2 dogs and my husband got me a pet cooling mat from b and m to lie on! No pants! Bliss! 

    Vanity goes out the window but you can do it, this site was an incredible help to me as you can speak frankly and not be judged. 

    Wishing you strength and success to get to the other side because when you do, life is bloody great again!!! Much love Lorna xxxxxx 

    LC
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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Dear Jax,  glad you read my post.  Don't worry about feeling ill or reactions during treatment, we are all different.  There is no 'one size fits all'!  Had a PICC line for chemo and had no real adverse reactions.  After 3 weeks skin reacted to radiotherapy but in the grand scheme of things it was manageable with help from drugs and dressings, but that is not the case for everyone!  Throughout all I kept thinking the end is in sight and soon I will be able to get on with living a normal life again!  Yes I did feel tired after the treatment finished, but I lost a couple of stones in weight, which was no bad thing for morale - and my wardrobe (was overweight before!).  Once you are given your first all clear all the discomfort pales into insignificance.  Start your journey with an open mind and don't even contemplate problems!  I only joined this site last year when I was 4 years post treatment - didn't know of anyone else when going through treatment even at the hospital!  Was curious to find out if there were others out there like me.  Have found so many and almost all with positive attitudes and outcomes.  Stay strong and keep in touch.  Before you know it treatment will be over and in the distant past!  Mxx

  • HI Itsabummer

    First of all, congratulations on your profile name- wish I had thought of that one- brilliant! 

    I was diagnosed with anal cancer in June 2019. Never been ill in my life before. I am 63, male and very active.

    Had to have a stoma fitted almost immediately. Unfortunately, the surgeon made a mistake on the operation and had to re operate - unbelievable- but we eventually got there- and I now have a permanent stoma that I have adapted to. Was challenging at first but now its not a problem, and 11 weeks on its much more straightforward than I thought it would be.

    I am just coming to the end of 5 weeks radio therapy with chemo tablets at the Christie Hospital in Manchester. As with everyone else, its 25 sessions Monday to Friday with weekends off. The treatment itself is very straightforward so you shouldn't worry about that at all. The radiotherapy teams are made up of young professionals, highly trained and very friendly. You end up getting into a routine where you get to know the radiographers, receptionists and fellow patients and its just a question of ticking off the days. You lie down by yourself for about 7 minutes and the machines do their stuff and thats about it. My problem was having to lie still in a supine position for more than 3 minutes without moving as this led to pressure on my tumour that was very uncomfortable. I was given pain relief for this which helped a bit but the longer the session lasted the more painful it got. I don't believe this problem happens for everyone but it was an issue for me. Happy to go into more detail with anyone else who had the same problem.

    Like you, I was daunted and overwhelmed at the thought of radiotherapy and chemo- especially with the side effects. I have been lucky as I have had virtually no side effects, just a bit of soreness in the area where the tumour is- which is treated with some soothing cream . I had a few feelings of nausea but nothing of consequence , and the medications have been very helpful in countering any pain from the tumour. I have the chemo in tablet form - 3 in the morning and 3 at night .

    So, don't be too worried by the whole thing as Radiotherapy and chemo is not as daunting as it sounds in my case- and I do hope the same applies to you. I think alot of it is about feeling positive and determined not to let the cancer win- sorry if that sounds a bit glib- but attitude of mind is very important in my view 

    Good luck and all the best with it

    Sean 

    Sean 
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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thanks for your up lifting words. I start radio/chemo 21 Oct. am dreading it but as you say hopefully time will fly by. 

    I am own my own so no real emotional support or financial  as have long daily commutes to treatment.  But as I read on some web site I am gonna play Gloria Gaylors. I WILL SURVIVE. VERY VERY LOUDLY IN THE CAR. 

    HOPE YOUR OK 

    JAX

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Posted on here before, when lying on the table the radios sometimes played music tapes and sometimes nothing.  The one that resonated "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger!". Was nearly 70 years old and didn't know anything of the music tape!  It has lived with me for the last five years but gives me hope and makes me smile every time I hear it. Still here and happy,.keep going on and hoping.  You are in charge of your future. Together we can get there!  Keep going.  Mxx