Im 43yrs old and sadly have been diagnosed with Squarmois Cell Carcinoma just inside my bottom.
I am awaiting my PET mri scan before starting chemo/radiotherapy.
I am struggling with the feeling of always wanting thr toilet, often straining for almost nothing to come out.
My GP seems rubbish as to what to prescribe me for pain relief. I have been taking Paracetemol and then a Co-codamol along with Laxitives to help with constipation. This sometimes barely takes the edge off of it.
Has anyone had similar struggles and what were they prescribed?
Hopefully my treatment goes well once it starts.
Thank you for any help...
Hi Chieffee
Welcome to the group and so sorry you are going through this. I start treatment on Monday and it's been such a long wait.. 2 months since diagnosis after months of going back to the dr knowing something wasnt right.The pain can wake me up at night and I haven't slept properly since December. The fatigue is also really difficult to deal with now. I was so active before this but gradually my energy levels have plummeted. I have learnt to give into the tiredness and now sleep when I need to. A day time nap is now my norm..
As for pain I popped paracetamol and ibrobrufen regularly but the pain was getting so bad. I eventually got put on morphine patches which takes the edge off but I do need to take laxatives as they have a constipation side effect. They alao have a drowsy effect so I wasn't keen but my cancer nurse was super helpful and said do not suffer with the pain. I have had to sometimes alao top up with oral morphine which helps too. I generally hate taking meds but figure this is short term.
My bloods recently showed up I was very low in iron so had to have an iron infusion I also had started bleeding rather heavily but that seems to have died down now thankfully.
I definitely recommend talking to you cancer team about pain meds and going back to your GP. I called my GP and said my cancer team advised I was put on morphine patches slow release ones. The fast action ones made.me feel very sick so make sure you get slow release ones if you go on them.
Good luck with it all
Polly
Polly
We will all be thinking of you on Monday, please come back and let us know how it went. The first day can be a long one, but after that, provided your bladder is full, you can be in and out of treatment in 20 minutes.
And start marking off that calendar!
Irene xx
Sending massive good luck wishes. I was given Pregabalin. , it's a nerve ending pain killer ,once I was about the 3rd week in on treatment. Also creams to apply lots in the day. I recommend you get some puppy pads for your bed, a Sit bath, water wipes are a must, and I bought some cotton gloves off Amazon for applying the creams. Drink about 3 litrs of fluid a day. I went on a low fibre diet to help with the loose stools. Im 4 weeks on from treatment , and still struggling to wear clothes. But i am improving slowly each day. . Rest as much as you can. It really helps.
Sending positive hugs Anne
Hey Anne
I've just ordered a sitz bath and stocked up on wipes ans creams thanks for recommendations. Also ordered some pads you but in the fridge to help with swelling. It's surreal isn't it I still feel this isn't happening to me!
Keep getting well and hope ypu start feeling better soon
Xxx
Thanks you so much Irene. My husband has made a massive chart with all days of treatment on and I am looking forward to crossing those days off.
Xxx
Hi Polly,
Im sorry you are also going through the same journey as me.
Today was ok for me, Chemo felt good, so much so that i was happy to stay for longer. I shall be back again next week and like you I shall be needing an Iron infusion too.
Hopefully the stuff does its magic and im happy to have finally started.
I just hope the worry of a blockage does not happen.
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