Hi all
oPsting here as I am looking for any positive stories of others who have been diagnosed with this condition.
I've been dealing with the NHS in the UK and it's taken just short of a year to be diagnosed. They originally diagnosed me with Lymphomatic Malformation of the parotid gland. Unfortunately the ultrasound team decided against a biopsy I'm November 2023 and this was only recently done.
I was given the diagnosis today and have surgery in a month with radiation to follow.
I'm not too sure what I am looking for here but would greatly appreciate if anyone who has been through this can let me know how they are doing. No idea how aggressive this is, but it's slow growing.
I'm a 38 yr old male, turning 39 next week. My life feels a mess. Our landlord is selling our flat, I was assaulted Monday and have a broken nose... I'm struggling to cope
Thanks and apologies of this is all over the place.
I just joined this forum. I was diagnosed with ACC in September. I have had 2 surgeries (the first didn’t get all of the cancer) and I’m stsrting radiation next week. Working to keep my spirit strong. This cancer is so rare but the prognosis is good following radiation.
My issue is primarily the inability to eat and talk without the palatial obturator. And with radiation I may be eating through a stomach port. I’m scared but resigned to the journey. I wish you well on your journey.
Hi
I'm sorry to hear of your diagnosis.
It's a really tough diagnosis with the limited informaton out there but I found a really good resource and support in the Salivary Gland Cancer UK charity (https://www.salivaryglandcancer.uk/) and also used https://accrf.org/ as a resource.
I'm on day 33 of 35 of my Proton Beam Therapy treatment.
Looking forward to finishing the radiation this week. It's been a long road already.
I was fortunate from an eating and drinking perspective and can only imagine how scary your situation is. I'm at a loss of words for you. All of our journeys feel so isolating but feel free to message if you need to talk or vent.
I am on Reddit on https://www.reddit.com/r/HeadandNeckCancer/ and there are a number of people on this sub reddit who may be able to offer advice or share their experience. I've met a number of supportive people here who have helped me on my journey so far. I often see others voice their concerns and ask for info, there may be someone else who has dealt with the same issues you are facing that could offer guidance or answer questions if you have them.
I wish you well too and pray that you can get through this part of the fight in good health.
Yep similar happened to me. I had been diagnosed through covid and a year later with cluster headaches then 2022 they asked me to come in and the consultant told me he feels he failed me as the CT scan did show cancer and he had misdiagnosed me approx 3years when I finally had the biopsy done I was already Stage 4 and no treatment options. I am now palliative care. I am 43yrs old with 4 children. I could shout and scream but it will get me nowhere at all
my goodness what you have been through is a lot. Are you okay? Do you have support? Please feel free to message me.
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