Dad diagnosed with terminal colon cancer

Hi Dexty,

I’m really sorry to hear about your Dad. It sounds like an overwhelming situation for you and your parents. I’m new to this group too and our family are going through the same with my 88yr old Mum. It has been an incredibly difficult few weeks with the diagnosis coming out of nowhere for someone who is fit and active. Whilst you’re busy trying to navigate the medical conversations and push for answers you are also trying to deal with all the emotions that it brings.

Do you have the details for the palliative care team at the hospital that your Dad is registered with? They should be able to help you with the care and equipment side of things, including advice on pain and symptom management. Also Macmillan will be able to provide information and support and advise if you aren’t getting anywhere with the hospital. Know that you’re not alone in this.