My partner has terminal kidney cancer

  • 2 replies
  • 13 subscribers
  • 420 views

The family and I were at the hospital today, we were asked to go. My partner wanted to discuss the options available to his dying! It's only a matter of time now. So emotional, draining.he wanted to talk to his kids about his will, where everything is in the house and was getting very worried. I explained we had gone through all of this with the solicitor before. I have left him with his kids at the hospital as have to be up early in the morning for work!  I feel so scared that he will be gone soon! How do you cope without your soulmate? 

  • Im So sorry about your situation , you’re not alone.  My husband has incurable cancer and is struggling. I feel like I’m grieving him now and he’s still here but maybe I’m grieving our previous life as life is different now. It really good that you’re working that must be so hard , I just can’t at the moment and really couldn’t care what the consequences are.  He is literally my other half , I’ve been with him since I was 19 and I’m 37 now. 
    Sending hugs, im Expecting that it never gets easier but you learn how to cope just as we’re doing now . Xx

  • I am so.sorry too hear your sad news  you are not alone my husband has  advance stage 4 cancer  so I know how you are feeling  I agree with you it is draining I am here for you ever want too chat