Hi my name is Lizzie and I'm new here.
My grandfather has terminal stomach cancer stage 4. He was diagnosed over a year ago and was given an 9-12 months life expectancy. He had his first health regression two months ago.
I know every case is different but I'm not sure of what to expect when his health declines. And what to expect towards the end?
HI LizzieBee30
a warm welcome to the group. Sorry no one has got back to you sooner. So sorry to hear about your grandfather. Life can be too cruel.
I'm supporting my husband through his stage 4 brain tumour journey so to be honest yours is a question I've asked myself countless times. The first thing I would suggest is to talk to his medical team and ask their thoughts. Ask them about what changes or symptoms should be a cause for concern. I also called our GP to seek their advice and they really put my mind at ease about what I need to do when the day arrives that I need to reach out for help.
I searched on the wider website for some links that might help you here
If the person you care for is dying | Macmillan Cancer Support
Emotional support for family and friends | Macmillan Cancer Support
Emotional support for carers | Macmillan Cancer Support
I hope this is helpful.
For now, I'd suggest that you are led by what your grandfather wants. Listen to his wishes.
Please also look after yourself here. It's a lot to take in so please take time for yourself as it'll help you to cope in the long run.
This group is a safe supportive space so please reach out here anytiime. You're not alone, There's always someone here to listen, hold your hand and offer that virtual hug when its needed.
It’s always good to talk so please remember that you can also call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, emotional support, benefit and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
For now, I'm sending you a huge virtual hug. Stay strong.
love n hugs
Wee Me xx
Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm
