On Monday our lives were normal, yesterday our lives fell apart. A month ago my mum was well, independent and strong. Now she isn't. I don't know how to help, I don't know what to do and I don't know how to stop making it all about me. I feel useless and selfish and lost.
Yesterday she was diagnosed with incurable end stage lung cancer after taking a rapid decline from normal health over 4 weeks. We have no idea of timeline but having read (too much) it doesn't sound like we should be overly optimistic.
I have too many questions to ask, so am happy to be bombarded with anything that will help.
Thank you
