Scared of being alone

Hi  your fear is understandable and normal.  Life is always harder for those left behind.  Hopefully not everything happens at the same time so that you have time to take up hobbies, join groups and make new friends.

Children come back from Uni regularly and even after they finish Uni a lot of them live at home for a few years until they sort themselves out.

There are lots of groups you can join like book clubs, theatre clubs, walking groups, bridge, crafts etc.  If you're religious church is also a really social and supportive place.  

Volunteering (if you no longer work) is another very rewarding way to meet new friends and not be sat at home alone feeling lonely.

If you like being around children you can look into becoming a part time nanny.  If you like teaching you can volunteer as a tutor (it's one of the things I do and it's great).

Focus on making the most of the time you have with your husband and when the time comes if you want to meet new people or keep yourself busy there will be plenty you can do, no need to worry about it now.

Thank you so much for listening and taking the time to reply and offer encouragement GodWilling, I really appreciate your kind words and advice.

I have to keep reminding myself that we’re always learning and adapting, and hopefully I’ll have a few years with my husband first if we’re lucky enough. 

Take care and best Wishes xx