Watching my mum failing x

FormerMember over 4 years ago

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Hi I'm new today ,my mum's cancer has spread to her brain from lung since last year ,it as been a rolacoaster,I know not just me experincing this as we spk,mum mum has gone fast down hill since spread ,mum got put in hospice but for only one day as mum wanted to be at home so me and my sis has took it all hands on now,feeling calm as I will do it all for my mum,as her wish ,now at stage were not wanting to drink atall 3rd day and sleeping all day everyday,but mum will wake for little snack but no fluid,I think I just need to talk as sitting here lookin after mum,asking questions to myself ,spending precious times with my mum,fink mum at end stages xxxi hanks for reading and trying to understand I don't know how long left xxxx

LoobyLou49 over 4 years ago

Hi and a warm welcome to our group, although I'm sorry to hear about your mum. There's a special bravery in people who want to be allowed to pass in their own way without interference, but that takes a special bravery from the loved ones who are their carers and I admire your sense of calm. You say that you are 'trying to understand' and I know what you mean; it can take a while to get your head round the whole experience of caring for a love one in the later stages of life. You're so right to be 'spending precious times' with your mum. I have a very special memory of a long and gentle hug with my dad before he passed and I admire you for being there enjoying those moments. Please post here whenever you'd like to chat.

Love and hugs,

LoobyLou
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