Fell out with Daughter

Hi Dave and I do understand where you are coming from. I have no real experience with this although my brother (donor) is much older than me, we live 100 miles apart and never would phone each other, we basically lived different lives.

But a cancer diagnosis is a leveller in so many ways - if I was in your shoes I would tell your ex and your daughter. It’s up to them what they want with the information.

Hi Dave, u could try posting this in the Emotional issues group to get a  wider "audience"  as it were.

I suspect it will hang over u  if u  don't discuss it wth her again fairly soon - but I can well understand u not wanting to - especially if you're feeling fragile just now.

.Are you on good terms with your ex?If so, could u talk to her about the situation?

January' s a long time to be harbouring ill feelings. It could your daughter's forgotten it. Or might pigs fly?!

Anyhow, enough from me. Post this in "Emotional issues"

Sorry, this crossed with Mike's reply

Hi Dave,

I’m really sorry to read about how things are with your daughter.

My only advice is to dig down as far as you can into your soul and ask what you really want, what is really most important to you. And if you follow that path, you really can’t go wrong, because there is no right or wrong in things such as this.

I could tell you what I would do, talk about similar situations I’ve been in, but I think only you can answer the problem you are faced with.

I’m really hoping you find a positive way forward on this soon Dave.

Greg