Let's see if we can collect some helpful information and real life experience that we can signpost folks to after they have come home from their Stem Cell Transplant.
A couple of useful things I found were:
My Consultant told me that going through treatments like these was like doing a boxing match and a marathon every day over the months of treatments and this was done without any training.
Think doing the London Marathon without any training and you had to finish it as your life depended on it……. this is the journey you have been on so it most likely will take much longer than you would think to get back to some normality - it took me a good 2 years and I was 60 at the start of my recuperation.
Yes some folks bounce back quickly post treatment but more than often folks take a considerable amount of time to recover. 6 months is the average recovery time…… at 3 months post my second SCT I was just out of my wheelchair and able to do a few steps with my walking sticks…. I was not able to feed myself due to my bad Peripheral Neuropathy and even then I was not eating much……. Your body has been through far more then you imagine so be kind to yourself, give yourself a break as you are doing good and honestly this will pass.
My consultant also gave me this basic scale for classifying where I was on the recover journey.
50% = when in the hospital going through the transplant process.
60% = significant medical/physical issues that do not allow any physical activity apart from a shower and short walk and not able to prepaid food. Reliant of others for preparation of food.
70% = Significant medical/physical issues that do not allow any specific physical activity (not including a shower) but short walks and making a pot of soup. Will nap after the task.
80% = Physical issues that limits you to one activity per day. (not including shower) Able to prepare some food for a couple of people but most likely still taking a nap after activities.
90% = Some physical issues remaining (weak legs etc) but able to do a few tasks and may not be fully fit for permanent work but could do part time work. May have to .take a nap after doing tasks or work.
100% = No physical after effects and able to do multiple tasks including being back to work.
She also said on average the recovery is about 6 months with your recovery improving about 10% per month post SCT
A web page by the Anthony Nolan Trust - The First year post SCT (link)
A web document by Dr Peter Harvey - Life after Treatment (link)
Yes Homealone, I would think that a number will have the same stories. I had Asthma going into SCT - haven't used an inhaler since 
It's a challenging problem in how you take family and friends with you on your SCT journey. We were very fortunate that all our family and friends did grasp the mountain we were climbing especially being 9/10 hours round trip away from home.
With my gazillion clinic appointments and 9/10 weeks in the SCT unit I have made some very good friends and the issue of family and friends does raise its head very often. Lots of folks think their F&F are in some way protecting themselves out of fear, others just can't get across to F&F the enormity of the SCT journey and once you get out of the unit 'there is nothing wrong with you and you look great so what is all the fuss about?'
Lol Tessa, following my second Allo SCT I meet up with an old friend. He was obviously not brining up my journey and stayed on the subject of family, holidays..... they were just back from 3 weeks in the USA (I wish)....... even the weather!!!! his parting observation was 'your hair is growing..... what are you using on it?'......... silence, then I replied 'I am not using anything on it'....... solace..... 'oh' he said 'so what's making it grow?'..... silence again.... So I finished the meeting with 'I suppose my body now has the time and energy to allow it to grow after concentrating on 750hrs chemo, 45 radiotherapy sessions, 2 SCTs, 2 times in ICU and a year of recovery'
Yes, not very gracious of me but he did email back after a few days and apologised for not being total prat and not being supportive :)
