My Wife has had a new diagnosis and going through the testing and gathering results stages. She has a 5cm mass in her breast + cancer in 3 lymph nodes. She has had Biopsy and we have the results. She has had a CT scan and had the results. Next stage is an MRI - hopefully next week. Just had results of genetics test and that is positive. The waiting for the next step is difficult but to be fair the hospital seems to be moving things along quite quickly.
My wife is up and down and understandably so!
Any suggestions on how to help her stay calm whilst we start to navigate this extremely difficult period?
Hi Bonnie lad16 and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.
I’m Anne, one of the Community Champions here on the Online Community, and I was diagnosed with breast cancer in April 2022 so have a good idea how your wife will be feeling right now.
The online community is divided into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you join the breast cancer group, which is a great place to ask questions, share experiences and get support.
To join, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
It would be great if you could put something about your wife's diagnosis and tests to date into your profile as it really helps others when replying to you and also when looking for someone on a similar pathway. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
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