5 weeks and still waiting

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So back on the 7th July after a 2 week wait to speak to a gp they arranged to do blood tests to see if I was starting the menopause ( I'm 47 single mum) The very next day I was phoned at work to say it wasn't menopause but my Liver tests were through the roof. I was told they'd book an ultrasound and general exam to see what was going on. Within 5 minutes the gp phoned back and said she'd also give me a 2 week cancer referral as she wanted to get the process in motion as quickly as possible.

On the 29th July the consultant phoned to say to save time he'd book me straight in for a ct scan.

The gp exam showed an enlarged liver so I went ahead with the ultrasound on the 1st August 3 weeks after the initial call, it was pretty scary on my own but I got through it and she seemed to be focusing on the same place in the middle of my abdomen under the ribs.

An hour after I got home another gp phoned to say they needed to see me straight away. She said the ultrasound had shown masses on either my liver or spleen or both and to prepare to be told I had cancer. She even asked if I had a will.

She said the referral to oncology was on the system for a ct scan and just to wait and hear from them.

Eventually I had the ct scan on the 8th August after phoning and chasing it up, it was over quickly and the radiologist said he'd get the results sent to the consultant that day and it should only be a couple of days until I heard from him.

I waited 4 days and decided to phone them on Friday only to be told the scan results hadn't been sent and it could take up to 2 weeks to get them sent through not the "couple of days" I was told.

I explained how much turmoil I was in as it had been over 5 weeks since my initial referral and asked why it was taking so long. She checked the records and apparently the consultant had asked for further info from my gp and this wasn't sent until the 26th July! 

I am beyond scared and recognise I am now in a deep depression, my symptoms have got worse and I can barely eat as it causes pain and although I know it's hot I am literally sweating 24/7.

Luckily I work in a school so am off at the moment but this is giving me far too much free time to worry about the diagnosis, my Nan aged 69 and my Dad 64 both died of Liver cancer and I am terrified I'm going to be next, my youngest son is only 9 years old.

Sorry for the long post, just wanted to know really if this was usual to take so long to get a diagnosis. 

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community although I am sorry to see you joining us and to hear about your ongoing diagnoses and the challenges you are facing.

    Unfortunately the experience you are having getting a clear diagnosis is not that unusual at the moment. The diagnosis pathway from first seeing a GP to starting treatment is set at a maximum of 62 days…… so let’s look for the system to get things together so that you can understand clearly what you are dealing with.

    You may find it helpful to call the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00. These services provide cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear.

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  • Crotchet rose       Hi  your story is so similar to mine!! Time scale and everything!! I am now waiting fir appt with oncology, im told within 2 weeks, however i cant see that happening anyone got details on up to date wait times for initial consultation?? Sorry to hear about you honeybun, you must be quite young! I am 66 but truly devastated at the moment!! They have found a mass in my pancreas!! I too had raised liver enzymes after a routine bloodtest! Although the radiologist is querying Lymphoma! If anyone been through this or knows timescales ect, would be nice to hear from you. And i know just how you are feeling c Rose, write back to me if that will help perhaps we can buddy up!! Since, we are likely to be on a similar journey, sending you luv n hugs xx

  • Thanks for the reply Spoons, yes I'm 47 with a teenager and 9 year old at home, no close family apart from my mum who was widowed 11 years ago with my Dad passing away from liver cancer at 64. It was a hard fight with him and I was there with them all the way to the end. To say I'm terrified is an understatement, I've been a single independent woman for 6 years, finally got a job I love 6 months ago with amazing work colleagues who have been amazingly supportive. I'm in a nice rented house with a stable landlord who just takes the rent and leaves me to it and so just when I thought things were finally going right I get hit with this bombshell. I went off food about 6 months ago suffering with terrible indigestion I put this down to having my gall bladder removed a few years ago due to pancreatitis and multiple stones so I just cut out all the junk and was eating what I could, ( I've lost nearly 3 stone but it was there to lose!) Then about April time the sweats started, it was mostly in the mornings with sweat pouring from my head so my hair was wet but I just put it down to warmer weather and possibly the start of the menopause. Eventually got a gp appointment and well you know the rest. All I want is to know what it is and what treatment I can fight it off with, I know all the side effects and pain cancer can cause and I just want peace of mind that I'll still be able to cope on my own with my boys and stay here as a family,

    I'd love to keep in touch if that's ok with you, I live near Bristol so will be under Southmead hospital care. 

  • Hi  and a warm welcome to you as well.

    The waiting is indeed very stressful. The general aim is to meet the 62 days GP referral to starting treatment target but unfortunately this is often missed.

    There is one size fits all for how well the system is working as it will be different across Health Boards and indeed cancer departments.

    Up in Scotland where I live this target has often be missed for many people for a good number of years Smirk

    It is interesting that the Radiologist has mentioned Lymphoma, He/she will have a good understanding as to what to look for…… I was diagnosed way back from in 1999 with a rare incurable type of Lymphoma.

    I am still here and living as good a life as any 66 year old can be living…… even although it took 17 years of treatments to eventually get me into long term remission.

    There are over 60 types and subtypes of Lymphoma so diagnosis can take some time and often lasts longer than the recommended 62 days. If it is Lymphoma you would have to be referred to a Haematologist as they are the blood cancer experts…….. My consultant was 99% sure as to the type of Lymphoma I had but it took 6 separate biopsies, a few CT scans and a full year to find the clear pathology.

    We do have a few Lymphoma groups (you will find them in this list) but you are best not to go down the wrong rabbit holes as treatments across cancers is very different - even across Lymphomas.

    I suggest you stick to this thread until you have a clear diagnosis and we can direct you to the best group.

    Always around to chat and help.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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  • Thanks mike highlander, i appreciate your answer, i am miffed that i have a mass in my pancreas, but then they are querying lymphoma? I have no symptoms from either, no pain or weightloss, have u by anychance heard of anyone like me? I am so fit & well, this was started with a routine bloodtest! I did not see this coming at all! Regards Donna

  • Hi again Crochet Rose,sorry to hear you are suffering, it is such a shock!! I totally understand,its devastating!! I arranged to speak to a mcmillan nurse, it has really helped me, his name was Mike, really patient and kind, i really think it would be eorth you doing the same, he seemed to know what to say and was a huge help, speak again soon x

    • I have an update of sorts, I managed to get hold of the specialist GI nurse at the hospital after being given the number by the scans booking team, she was really lovely and promised to chase up my results which she did yesterday and today, she phoned me this afternoon to say they still hadn't arrived but would put me forward for the multi panel meeting on Friday to save waiting another week. Then literally 10 minutes later she phoned again to say they'd come through. Bad news is there are multiple angry lymph nodes as she called them showing on the scan which matches my ultrasound results on my liver and spleen which is pointing towards lymphoma cancer so my next step is a repeat CT including my chest as they only scanned my abdomen and pelvis and they will do biopsies at the same time. The panel will review me on Friday as well so fingers crossed I should have a clearer picture next week. One thing she also mentioned was sarcoidosis which after some googling ( I know I shouldn't) turns out it is an auto immune disease which can present with very similar symptoms to lymphoma but they are granular masses. This has given me a little hope as I already have an auto immune disease which affects my thyroid but at the moment I'm still of the mindset it is cancer but she said lymphomas are more treatable now. I couldn't thank her enough as I've no doubt without her chasing they would still be waiting. Keep strong and I hope you get some answers soon too xxx
  • Good morning Donna 

    they are querying lymphoma? I have no symptoms from either, no pain or weightloss, have u by anychance heard of anyone like me?

    This is not that unusual when it comes to Lymphoma especially Low Grade Non Hodgkin's Lymphomas.

    Over my 5 years helping out on the community I have talked with many people who have only found out they have Lymphoma by accident, normally through being tested for something else. When I was diagnosed I had no symptoms apart from a small rash on my back.

    This is all going to take time to get a clear understanding as to what this is so keep working with your medical professionals.

    As always the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 providing cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear. 

    Always around to chat.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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  • Good morning to you .

    It sounds as though things are making progress.  

    One thing she also mentioned was sarcoidosis which after some googling ( I know I shouldn't) turns out it is an auto immune disease which can present with very similar symptoms to lymphoma but they are granular masses. This has given me a little hope as I already have an auto immune disease which affects my thyroid but at the moment I'm still of the mindset it is cancer but she said lymphomas are more treatable now.

    It amazing how many people initially are told Lymphoma to eventually be found to be an autoimmune condition. But the hospital Multidisciplinary Team (MDT) meeting will review your case and put forward a plan to find out more.

    As I said to Donna the Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 providing cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear. 

    Always around to chat.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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  • I've had the CT and seen the oncology consultant and they have wonderful cancer lung specialist nurses. But they need a PET scan to decide what to do about my lung cancer. Normally PET scan reports come back in 5 days. It's now 2-3 weeks because a specialist radiographer - they write the reports-has left. My local hospital has a Fast Track service that is supposed to be 2 weeks from GP referral to diagnosis. It's likely to be about 6-7 weeks. It's the waiting. The uncertainty. Does your head in completely. I'm OK some of the time then I'll have an emotional crash and wail and rant. But then I pick myself up again. I've had a little look today at the stages of grief. Yup. That's it. So I have some understanding of how you might feel. I've had ME for a few years and in a way the same sort of things happened when I first got that. A whole wave of emotions and behaviours (which still happen sometimes) until I got to a place I could cope with. Get as much support as you can. The more you talk about it the more chance you have of getting to a place where you can cope emotionally (sometimes). Good luck. We're all going to need it.