Hi all. I am new here and very nervous. I am 38, a few weeks away from 39. At 35, I was diagnosed with PCOS and premature menopause. This past Februaruy, I was diagnosed by a fertility specialist as not having PCOS, but instead having premature ovarian insufficiency. The specialist said my lining was thicker but what she would expect for someone post menopause. She mentioned a spot to just watch annually as she wasn't overly concerned. I have not had a cycle since the age of 35. Then last month, I had 10 days of bleeding with cramping and lower back pain. I continue to have cramping and lower back pain, but the bleeding has stopped. I am trying to get in with a new specialist as soon as I can. Just looking for any thoughts or feedback you might have. Thank you in advance and I am sending healing thoughts and prayers to all of those struggling.
Hi and welcome to the Online Community.
I am so sorry to read about the concerns you are having but I hope you will find the support available in the community helpful at this difficult and challenging time.
Talking with others who are walking the same type of medical path will help you navigate this unwanted journey.
The New to Community is like the Community Reception area and as there are many cancer types and experiences so likewise the Community has many support groups so can I recommend you start by joining our supportive Ovarian cancer group as this will be a good place for you to connect with other folks who may be on the same pathway.
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