Hi all, my mum has just been diagnosed with rectal cancer and will need an.op to remove most of her large bowel and will have a permanent stoma .
anyone else been through this or a loved one that has
any advice would be very appreciated
think we are still in shock with the news
Hi and welcome to the Online Community but sorry that you had to find us. am especially sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis (in the family) can be very challenging but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey (my one is completely different) will help you navigate this difficult time I see you have joined our supportive Bowel (colon and rectum) cancer group as this will be a good place to connect with patients and family on the same cancer treatment pathway.
To go to the group just click on the link above then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from talking with others caring for family and friends so do check out our Carers only groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have Cancer Nurse Team in our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
All the very best ((hugs))
