Hi
I have had endometrial cancer, diagnosed in 2020, just before the pandemic hit. A week before the diagnosis I lost my job as the company I worked for went into administration. I had a hysterectomy and then chemotherapy and radiotherapy. I thankfully got the all clear in January and so started looking for another job.
I applied for so many positions and really felt that some didn't take me because of the cancer and reading between lines "didn't want the hassle" of employing someone who had been ill. This has also made me feel sometimes like I am not worthy or unable to do the job I love. However I did get a job with a charity, which I have never worked for before and so a real joy to be working for an organisation who make a difference in the world.
The problem I have is that because I haven't worked for over a year, I have lost my confidence in what I do and keep having waves of serious self doubt in my knowledge and capability.
Has anyone else experienced this? Can you suggest and coping mechanisms? Any suggestions would be so gratefully received.
TIA
Abi
Hi Abi and welcome to the Online Community but sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your ongoing post treatment challenges.
A cancer diagnosis like this can be very challenging and indeed these issues can last well after treatment is complete.
You may find talking with others who have walked the same type of cancer journey will help you navigate this difficult time so can I recommend you join our supportive Womb (uterus) cancer group as this will be a good place to connect with patients and family on the same cancer pathway.
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
You may also find posting in our Life after cancer group helpful as there are folks hang out who have experienced the same issues.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available.
This service provides lots of cancer information, support, financial and work guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have Cancer Nurse Team in our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
All the very best ((hugs))
