Hi,
New to this group, hear is my story.
Was diagnosed with Prostate cancer in August 2019, had prostate removed later that month, was informed then that it was Gleason 9 T3a. Usual issues post surgery, but classed as continent by the 6 week review PSA undetectable until the December 2020 test, where it was 0.2, then steadily increasing every month since.
Had a phone consultation last week with my oncologist and was informed that the cancer has spread to my lymph nodes and bones. He also told me that they cannot get rid of the cancer, but can control it.
What can I expect now please?
My husband's step father was In the same position and was offered chemo/radiotherapy combination to control his cancer. He lived until his late 70's. 10 years after diagnosis. You may be offered chemo alone or with rads. x fingers for a good plan for you.
Hi and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your diagnosis and ongoing challenges.
A cancer diagnosis like this can be challenging in so many ways but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey can help you navigate this difficult time.
The Community is organised into support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive
Prostate cancer (that I see you have joined)
Living with incurable cancer - incurable patients only
groups, these will be good places to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service can give lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. We also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section.
All the very best
Hi Tootsiepops and a welcome to you.
I see that you have joined our Lung Cancer group, this is a good place to get support from people walking this journey.
If I can help you more do come back to me and ai will do my best to help you out.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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