Hi all - after a few weeks of tests, it is very probably that I have a late stage ovarian cancer. I am scheduled for diagnostic lapro surgery in about 10 days and then they will be able to see what is going on and perform biopsies to confirm diagnosis. But, my scans showed nodules on my colon and omentum in addition to mass on one ovary. I will definitely have the debulking surgery - in 10 days if things look good or if not after 3 cycles of chemo. I am 45 and have 2 boys, ages 10 and 15 and I am just devastated with this diagnosis. I am trying to think only one step at a time, but of course my mind is going to the future and when I think of my kids, I just can't stop crying. Any support would be appreciated because I know this is just the beginning of my fight. Thanks everyone.
Hi Kdawn and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis can indeed be challenging in so many ways but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey can help you navigate this difficult time.
The Community is organised into support groups and I see you have joined our supportive Ovarian cancer group, this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To go to the group just click on the link above then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service can give lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. We also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section.
All the very best ((hugs))
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