Hi everyone
I’m not sure why I’m here.. it’s not even me who’s been diagnosed but I’m so scared worried and every emotion in between..
My mum has been diagnosed with lung cancer.. and I’m struggling to say the least.. I’ve read and reread and read again her discharge summary but it just doesn’t make much sense to me.. I’ve recently had a baby and have 2 other children but I want to support my mum as much as humanly possible whilst keeping my head above water and not sinking down a hole into depression
Is there anyone who I can ask questions to in terms of the things I don’t understand/can’t wrap my head around.. I’ve googled so much since Tuesday
please help if you can
Hi and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis in the family can be challenging in so many ways but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey can help you navigate this difficult time.
The Community is organised into support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive Lung Cancer group, this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from talking with others caring for family and friends so do check out our Family and friends and Carers only groups as you will connect with others supporting family and friends through their cancer journey.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service can give lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. We also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section.
((hugs))
