Hi I’m new here

FormerMember
FormerMember
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My husband has a recent and sudden diagnosis of lung cancer and a small tumour pressing on his spinal nerve. I need somewhere I can get advice on caring for him at home.

  • Hi  and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis.

    A cancer diagnosis in the family can be challenging in so many ways but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey can help you navigate this difficult time.

    The Community is organised into support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive Lung Cancer and Spinal cord tumours groups, these will be good places to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.

    To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.

    You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'. 

    When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from talking with others caring for family and friends so do check out our Carers only  (that I see you have joined) as you will connect with others supporting family and friends through their cancer journey.

    It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service can give lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. We also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.

    To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section

    All the very best ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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    FormerMember

    You are doing your best and remember that at all times. If you need an hour to yourself that doesn’t make you a bad person, take a deep breath and plod on. You can only be there for your husband when you’re there for yourself 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you, I need reminding of this it’s easy to forget me.