Hi I'm New. A wife and Carer for 11 years

Hi  and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your husbands cancer journey.

A cancer diagnosis in the family can be challenging in so many ways but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey can help you navigate this difficult time.

The Community is organised into support groups, you don’t mention what type of cancer he has so have look through our list of Cancer specific groups as this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.

To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.

You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones). You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'. 

When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from talking with others caring for family and friends so do check out our Carers only group as you will connect with others supporting family and friends through their cancer journey.

It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service can give lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. We also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.

To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section. 

((hugs))

Thanks Mike

My husband has had bowel, liver, lung & lymph node cancer  he has got it in both lungs again which is   now incurable  

Hi again and sorry to hear the challenges he and you are having to deal with.

I think you would benefit from joining our supporting someone with incurable cancer group

I have an incurable type of blood cancer but is treatable at the moment.

Do connect in with the groups as you can talk with others walking the same journey ((hugs))