Hi all. i'm numb, scared, don't have a clue what i'm doing or what to do. I was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer of the peritoneum on Friday 26th. The staff at the hospital were amazing. However i'm so scared of what happens next. I have to have another CT scan today to make sure it has not spread to my lungs and other areas. I'm trying to be strong for my partner and the rest of my family but i am totally heart broken. just can't stop crying. Feel useless.
Hi and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community although sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your Peritoneum cancer diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis brings many questions but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer treatment journey will help you navigate this challenging time.
The Community is organised into support groups, I understand that Peritoneum Cancer can appear in various area but you may want to check out our supportive Bowel (colon and rectum) cancer, Womb (uterus) cancer and Ovarian cancer groups as these will be a good places to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
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It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
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Dear Jennibel - so sorry to read this. Do you have friends you can talk to? There are some great accounts on social media that may help you too. The not knowing must be really hard. My mum has just been diagnosed and I think once you have a treatment plan in place you will feel calmer. Sending positive vibes your way.
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