I’ve just had my third chemo this week and I do struggle with side effects but this weekend I’m emotional and finding it hard to eat and drink. I have an amazing husband and 2 sons but I don’t like them seeing me like this, I feel such a burden. I am trying to push through this but this week it’s tough. Is all this normal??
Hi Red robin101 and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community although sorry that you had to find us.
Our bodies and minds are not made to endure chemo but unfortunately it has to be done so ‘tough’ takes on an all new meaning.
A cancer diagnosis brings many questions but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer treatment journey will help you navigate this challenging time.
You don’t say what type of cancer you have. The Online Community is organised into various support groups and this list is for our Cancer specific Groups so have a look through the list for your cancer type as this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To join a group just choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
((hugs))
