Mum has been diagnosed today with cancer

FormerMember
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My mum has been diagnosed with cancer in her kidney which has spread to her lungs and bones!  We are devastated. I’m scared for her and us.  We don’t know what to expect, think we went numb and didn’t take in much.  I’m scared of losing her .....

  • Hi  and warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community although sorry that you had to find us and especially sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis.

    A cancer diagnosis in the family brings many questions but talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer journey will help you navigate this challenging time.

    The Community is organised into support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive Kidney cancerLung, secondary cancer and Bone, secondary cancer groups, this will be a good place to connect with patients and families navigating the same type of cancer journey.

    To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.

    You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'. 

    Talking with others caring for family and friends will help a lot so do check out our Family and friends and Carers only groups as you will connect with others walking the same journey supporting family and friends through their cancer journey.

    It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.

    To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers can be found on our Online Information and Support Section

    ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi my mam has been diagnosed three weeks ago and I’m devastated too. Starts chemo in 2weeks I’m so worried about it and don’t know what to expect 

    hope you are ok xx