Introducing myself. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer some 4 years ago. Since then radiotherapy, 2 operations on a leg, drugs. Initally it was thought I might not live long and I did all the paperwork - but I am still here. Recently I fell and broke an arm which is now healing up - the hospital think this is just so,ething that happens to older women, not cancer related. Feel tired and anxious about what comes next alongside holding hope in living while I'm here.
Hi Piff, welcome to the Incurables group, lovely to meet you but of course I wish we'd met elsewhere. To be still around after 4 years having been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer is some achievement. Hope you can still say the same in another 4 years and more! Meanwhile Piff, keep on living and enjoying life.
I was diagnosed with a bone marrow cancer way back in 2015 and thanks to 2, sometimes 3 treatments a week, every week, since then I'm unbelievably still around.
I'm sure others will come on to welcome you soon enough, there are lots of lovely caring people here,
Tvman x
Hello Tvman
Wow. Well done for coping with so much treatment, that is a lot. Do you have to go into hospital every time?
Yes I am finding that for a year or two people thought I was going to die and were extremely kind to me. Now I'm in an odd no man's land, a plateau, where no one seems to know and I have to steer myself. Sometimes that's fine and sometimes I feel tired.
thanks for your message
Piff
Hi Piff, thanks for your concern. No I don't need to go to hospital, the treatments are by way of self administered injections. I get them sent to me, sometimes 4, 6, 8 or 12 weeks' worth depending on results of bloods taken at hospital.
I was the same as you at the beginning, everyone including me thought I was going to die before my 60th birthday (I was diagnosed when I was 57, I'm now 67 almost 68.)
I feel like I'm in limbo, my bloods haven't been good for 10 years, red cells are always low, white cells aren't always good and platelets have been low for 3 years now. It's just a matter of hanging on in there and trying to live as normal a life as possible and enjoy myself. Just like you I feel so tired and could sleep all day long.
Tvman x
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