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Hi everyone, 

I have been muddled up with this site on my phone and have messaged in wrong groups so I apologise if you've read this before.

I am 39 years old and have recently been diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma cancer with multiple brain and lung metastasis. Obviously this was a shock and hearing the words we can "only try to prolong your life" was hard to digest. 

I had a 2.9mm nodular malignant melanoma removed from my upper back in 2018. I had wide local excision and sentinel node biopsy which came back negative. Unfortunately 3 years on during a routine head scan for my eye check the brain tumours were found and the rest followed.

I've had 5 sessions of full brain radiotherapy and have currently had one round of immunotherapy Opdivo(Nivolumab) and Yervoy(lpilimumab), my next round is on the 28th of June.

I have always been a positive person and that is not going to change. I have to believe that miracles can happen. I am the proud dad of 7 year old twin boy's. My boy's were born prematurely on 24weeks gestation, they had a horrendous start to life spending many months in intensive care. They're both now non-verbal autistic with severe learning difficulties but they're amazing and my absolute reason to keep going. I can't even think of not being here for them and leaving my wife to bring them up alone. 

Everybody's journey is different but I hope you're all having good news with your own personal battles. Don't lose hope because as my boy's have shown me, miracles can and do happen.

Has any body had some positive news lately with immunotherapy?

All the best,

Steve 

The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us, but those who win battles we know nothing about.

  • Hi RD,

    I haven't been good but thanks for your support.

    Steve

  • Sorry to here the side effects are so bad for you, hopefully they can swap you to another treatment that your body likes a bit better. 


    Richard

    be safe, be nice, be you 

  • Hi Annette,

    Treatment did start back up 2 weeks ago but then it knocked me back again, been in hospital a week now. Lost loads of weight and due to side effects I continue to have my treatment is getting stopped. Gutted as it felt like it was my only chance but I'm sure they'll be to try something else so I won't be giving up.

    Hope you're ok

    Steve

  • Hi Steve, I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been ill again and that they have stopped your Ipi Nivo, It’s good that you have had 3 out of the 4 Ipi, as often 1 Ipi holds things back so 3 means you were nearly there, so I’m going to be hopeful along with you. 

    I’m no further forward (or backward) than when we last spoke. My lump in my groin is very visible to me and hard about the size of a walnut shell and 1cm higher than the normal level of the skin. I don’t know what the others that are more internal are doing and I’m awaiting a scan to find out. My next appointment in September will be face to face for the scan results, I’m to alert them if the skin above starts to go purple or if I start to be in pain, it’s just uncomfortable at times at the moment.   My cancer is slow growing at the moment so the don’t want to jump to soon, they think it’s still working on some areas but they don’t want to change to late either so scan should be mid August they are chasing a date for me. 

    https://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT03997474?recrs=abdf&cond=Melanoma&cntry=GB&city=Cambridge&draw=2&rank=2

    Above is the link for the trial they are considering for me, I spoke to a different consultant last appointment who I have known for a while and she says she also knows of another trial based on BRAF treatment, it’s all dependant on that next scan so I felt it best to leave things at that and I will hear if it’s relevant next time. Too many ifs and buts, so I’m shelving them for a few weeks. 

    I hope the gap off treatment means you can gain strength for a bit, and I hope that you will be closely monitored.

    Take care KT

  • Hi Steve, Sorry but I have just read this! Hope things have calmed down a lot by now for you. As KT has said Ipi is so strong that even one treatment can make a difference and you have had three which is fantastic! Hope it keeps on working inside for a long time!

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!
  • Hi Steve, I apologize for not taking part in this discussion for the last month, but have been in a bad place, as I mentioned when I last contacted the group, my friend of 40 years had lung and brain cancer, unfortunately it took her away from us on 4th August, we have lost a wonderful person.

    I have recently been told my cancer is under control and can look forward to many years, i hope the doctors can give you and your family the same good news.

    All the very best Ulls

  • Hi Ulls, 

    So sorry for your loss, it's so cruel.

    I am currently still in hospital unwell. I've just had full CT to check my brain, lungs and pancreas which they're now concerned isn't functioning properly. Not looking forward to the results but I need to know so I can move forward. 

    So pleased you've had some good news and long may it continue.

    Take care,

    Steve 

  • Hi KT, 

    Yeah I'm still in hospital, hasn't been an easy couple of weeks especially leaving my wife to manage alone with our twins. But hopefully I'll have some answers soon having had scans today. 

    I'll have to see what the plan is for my future treatment as they're stopping the immunotherapy altogether. 

    One step at a time though, I'm sure they'll be to offer me something else.

    Clinical trials seem scary but probably worthwhile.

    Take care,

    Steve 

  • Hi Ulls, I was so sorry to read about your friend dying. A very good friend of mine (of 30+ years) went into hospital to have a knee replacement and died of a heart attack three days later. It was a shock to everyone. There was I, having been told a year before, I had 5-7 months to live! I couldn't believe she was gone and I was still here. I had expected to die but because of a trial drug, I'm still here but I have left nothing unsaid to my family. Every day I tell them I love them. My friend didn't get that chance, so I think I am the lucky one.

    I am so pleased to read your cancer is under control, long may it continue and you enjoy the coming years with renewed excitement!

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!
  • Oh Steve, I am so sorry to read you are still in hospital. I do hope your scan results are a lot better than you expect and they find a trial to suit you, then you will be around for a long time for your family.
    I remember looking at your Profile Page last time I read a post from you and I see you haven't been well enough to fill that in yet. How old are your twins? Girl or boys? 

    Love Annette x

    Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is a Gift!!!