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Chelle, she will probably reply. Wait and see. We all tend to go for the least favourable outcome in our situation. We all know that friends can disappear because they can't handle it. But some become even better friends. We must never forget our core values and stay true to them - no matter what.

Hi Hamhat, I have adenocarcinoma in the lung plus larnx carcinoma, but that's by the by.

Learning to live with cancer is not easy and not anything anyone should have to go through. But we are here networking, giving and accepting support because we decided it is worth fighting. Ask yourself honestly, why do you feel alone and isolated at the moment? Are there people who can help you? Do you just need a nudge to go out and be yourself again? I hope you find answers soon and don't even think about giving up. Have a good evening.

Hi Donna 

I'm so sad for you and I wish you were here and I could give you a physical hug. You were so friendly and supportive to me when I was on the site before my wife took ill. 

Lovely to know you Donna xx

Tvman 

Hello again Donna, I was hoping that when you weren’t on here, your treatment had worked and you were out enjoying life.      Firststly, my apologies for not replying before now but I didn’t get any notification that you had posted and just came across this by accident. I am so sorry for the way you are feeling just now. Isn’t it strange how we can have lots of people around us and Still feel alone! I am sorry you are back with us here but you know everyone here knows exactly how you feel as we are all in the same boat.
This is where we support one another and Chelle I think Patrick is right when he says to wait and give yourself and your friend time to respond! I hope she does respond but if not, she is not a real friend.

Donna, As you know, I have been on this roller coaster ride for quite a long time now and the way I get through good and bad days, is just to take it a day at a time and cope with whatever happens and deal with it. I hope you will stay in touch and let us know if things have improved!