First post for the second time x

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Not completely ready to dive right in but appreciate the support I have seen in this group for a little while so taking tentative steps to posting for now, I have stage 4 incurable cancer, treatable but learning slowly what that means x

  • Thank you all for being so kind and patient. I live in a rural part of South Wales in a small but close community, my diagnosis was completely out of the blue and has shattered us all. Seeing the pain of others is much worse than coping with my own. My treatment will be chemotherapy which I have started and has not been as bad as expected so far though I believe it is likely to get more difficult. Another big shock for me has been the complexity of coping with the NHS. I cannot complain about the timing of appointments, scans etc, but the number of different teams, disciplines and departments involved is leaving my head spinning as to who to contact for what issue and when.

    Thank you all again for being there and in the words of another group member I will put my big girl pants on and move forward xx

  • Welcome. We are a diverse group with different cancers and at different stages in our incurable journeys. There will likely be people having similar experiences to you and lots of people to chat with. 

  • Hi GreenJ

    Welcome to the Group. This is a great group of people who provide support when you need it but also reminds you that life is not always about our conditions. Don't be afraid to ask for advice or if you just want to rant or even if you want to share a special moment/crafts/hobbies. We are here to support you as best we can.

    Sledge x

  • Thank you, I understand you are having surgery today, best of luck xxx

  • Thank you for your kind message and the reminder that life is about more than our conditions which was very much needed and a balance I need to achieve x

  • Hi GreenH, and lovely to see you post, and so soon, so big hugs and a very warm welcome to the family..

    Eddie xx 

  • Hi GreenH, I'm glad you've taken the decision to join the group. We're a very supportive and helpful bunch, we can raise spirits when you're feeling low because we've all been in a similar situation and know the benefits of support and having a shoulder or 6 to lean on. Hope you'll be very happy with us. 

    Tvman 

    Love life and family.
  • Hi GreenH

    Sorry about the typo!

    Sledge x 

  • Thank you Eddiel, I have given myself a bit of a talking to and spent a nice day yesterday in the sun with friends which helped to shake the dark shadow a little. Have a lovely day whatever you are up to. X

  • Thank you tvman, starting today in a better place and the sun is shining again. Never been a gardener before but I have tentatively started growing a few things to keep myself occupied so hope to see you in the gardening thread soon x