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Hi Minmax, positive is the best way to be, and you have to get up if you get knocked down, i understand you completely. take care.

Eddie

Thanks Eddiel Your are   spot on , Never give up  getting up All the Best Minmax

Hi Minmax, I agree she did a mean thing, she didn't deserve your attention. I do believe what comes around, goes around and she will get her comeuppance one day!

Eddie, I hope you are going to rest as your doctors have said. Whether it is in Australia or locally, the people who matter (you & Sheila) will be there! If Sheila decides on Australia then you could always have a party here once you come back, then everyone gets a chance to celebrate!

Hi Annette, I am resting i promise, Sheila and I have been talking today about the wedding and family and good friends we would want to invite comes to 65 people, and travel & accommodation to Australia is difficult and expensive, so we are leaning to a local service, never knew it would be so problematic and a pain in the arse, though that may be the surgery. my bedtime Annette, hope you get some sleep too, take care.

love Eddie xx

Hi Eddie, I hope you will read this later in the morning nstead of stupid o'clock! Oh it isn't problematic, it is just that you can't please all of the people all of the time, so itis up to Sheila and you to do what you agree on and for everyone else to be happy for you. Having a wedding abroad is always expensive, even when it is in Europe so a lot of people have a service at home and a blessing abroad, then have 2 small parties, one here and one there!  The main thing is for it to be a Happy Day, or days for you both with people around you who love you! Please try to make the whole process a happy one. It is like going on holiday, some people dread the journey but others, like myself & Vince feel we are ON HOLIDAY as soon as we leave home and make the journey part of the holiday!

Hope you feel rested when you wake up and have your positive head on!!

Morning all, it's blood suckin day again here last week's were to low ,  hope you all good n well and enjoy your day whatever you do

Good job Sheila can't see that message you could get told off,

Thanks Annette, as Sheila's grand total of family and friends in Aus is 2, It really is a no brainer as to where to have the wedding, I'm always positive mostly, guess as it's been a tough week for me so maybe not at my best' . Your service and blessing suggestion appeals to me, but It's Sheila's choice to make and if she's happy then so am i,  as i know we won't be together long after getting married, so just want the big day to be all he could wish for, take care.

love Eddie xx

Morning Ulls, we have no secrets, never even had an argument, I know my place LOL, What message were you referring to? PS do the rules change once your married

No I was referring to pushing her over the threshold in a wheelbarrow, that could be taken both ways.

Yes no secrets best way forward, my spouse can read my posts whenever she wants to, calls me an old flirt, no idea why.