Checking in to give you the latest

Thank you for letting us all know the update I know everyone will be wishing you all the best for yourself and your wife sending huge hugs and love to both of you xxxxxxx

Hi Tvman, Good to see you post here again, it has been a while but I know you've had your hands full.

I'm sure the regulars here have been missing their Garden thread too with all the hints and tips from you.

The main thing is both you and Mrs T get the treatment you need and get sorted out. Of course if there are any messages from anyone here, I will pass them on to you.

in the meantime take good care of both of you while eating your harvested vegetables!

Thanks for the update Tvman, I was so sorry to hear the news about your wife, life isn’t fair is it? I hope that the treatment is going well for her. Big hugs to you both

Jac x

Thanks to update us Tvman...it will be a hard time for the both of you, but please know we are always thinking of you and hoping for a good outcome. Hugs Pet

Thanks for the update Tvman, love and hugs to you and Mrs Tvman xxx

Wishing both of you the best of luck. Thinking of you both.

Cat x

Hi TVman

So good to hear from you, I hope your wife's treatment goes well and has the desired effect for her,

The main thing for you at the moment is that both of you do ok and treatment is what you need. Missing your tips and photos this year but that can wait,

Wishing you both all the best prayers and hugs

Donna

Hi everyone, I've just nipped in to have a read and I have read some very lovely replies from friends old and new. I really do value your support and I'm so grateful. As far as we're aware Mrs Tvman's cancer has been caught early so the signs are hopeful that she gets through this. We have support from a lot of the family although it hasn't been relayed to anyone outside brothers, sisters, nephews, nieces and in-laws. Mrs Tvman doesn't want many people to know, in fact she wasn't going to tell her brother and sister until I sat down with her and said that they wouldn't like to find out from someone outside the family. I also said to her that there's no shame in having cancer and after that she immediately spoke to her brother and sister. 

Anyone else have the same thoughts?

Thanks again everyone for your support.

Tvman x

Hello TVman it's good to meet you. I see you are a garden expert, unfortunately I'm not but I have friends who are and have made my wee garden look great. I've always had dogs and they take up all my spare time.

I completely empathise with Mrs Tvman. I too didn't want people to know that I had cancer. It's strange really when you ask yourself why? It's such a dreaded word that people feel awkward in responding to you. I have a variety of friends in different circles so I eventually delagated a person in each group for them to pass any information on. I was fed up repeating myself although I know people were only concerned. But I did tell my immediate family which was hard. But nine months on it's we all just get on with it and I'm treated as being 'normal' now although people have always said I'm not normal...in a good way

Judy xxx

Hi tvman 

Lovely to hear from you. I was just thinking about you yesterday, wondering how you and your wife were getting on. Good news that they've caught it early. Best wishes to you both for your treatment.

A x